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My self-summary
I'm adventurous and always busy by choice. Life's too short to ever be bored. I'm always trying to explore new places. When I was a baby i used to run away all the time, driving my parents nuts!

I'm an outgoing and genderqueer, and I like dressing in pretty clothes. I love writing music, organizing outdoor lasertag parties, and traveling the world.

I'm openly polyamorous and i'm looking for other poly people. I'm in an open relationship, and right now I'm looking for a friend, friend with benefits, or sweetie to have fun adventurous dates with maybe once a week or so, with maybe the occasional out of town trip every few months.

Even though I'm in an open relationship, I'm very loving and caring to the people I am partnered with.

I love visiting the outdoors, going on sunset picnics, hiking in parks, cycling, running, swimming, indoor rock climbing, skiing, and most recreational activities that don't involve chasing a tiny white ball through a pedicured landscape!

I'm vegan but I'm somewhat of a foodie. I love to create my own culinary masterpieces, or at least try to. I'm also quite respectful for other people's dietary choices.

I'm probably unlike most people you know. I'm a dreamer who's looking for inspiration.
What I’m doing with my life
I have an awesome seasonal job that keeps me busy during the summer/fall, and i work on my music and travel during the winter/spring. During my free time I compose music, mostly new age. During the off season I run my own outdoor lasertag business organizing corporate teambuilding events.

I'm training for a half ironman, and I hope to be able to race in one a year from now. I bike everywhere, and I do lots of running. During my dinner breaks from work I'll run from the opera house to the top of Buena Vista park. It's a gorgeous and strenuous run. I like to push myself hard and extend my limits of what I can do both physically and mentally. I also enjoy Yoga.
I’m really good at
I'm good at surprising people, including myself! I'm a great cook as long as its vegan. I also have a very good sense of direction both navigationally and in terms of what I want out of life. I'm a dreamer who comes up with lots of wacky and a few clever ideas.

When I set out to do something, I always take it to the extreme. If I'm going to surprise you, it will be well planned and quite elaborate!
The first things people usually notice about me
my eccentric garb- i love wearing skirts, and colorful artsy clothes. Ordinary clothes bore me. I'm more genderqueer than trans.. I just enjoy wearing skirts because they're so comfortable. I have very long blond, sometimes red hair, although it's purple at the moment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Amethystium, delerium, two steps from hell, tangerine dream, conjure one, beirut, david arkenstone, moby, stellastarr, and the parson redheads. Music is everything to me. Movies are ok. Tv I find very boring unless it's a documentary about cement drying. If find those type of TV shows fascinating!
Six things I could never do without
Music, lasertag, gourmet vegan food, friends, fun places to explore, and fun people to explore them with!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a dreamer. I think of all the things I want to do with my life. I spend a lot of time on playing music, and developing my lasertag business.
On a typical Friday night I am
My Fridays or real Fridays? My Fridays usually fall on a Tuesday, since my weekends are usually Wednesday-Thursday!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not a private person by any stretch. Ask me anything!
You should message me if
If you're ok with being with someone who's poly. I don't have the jealousy gene. I want someone to go out and have fun with.

If you're looking for someone to have dinner and movie dates with, go out hiking or camping, go to a concert, or play lasertag with, than msg me!
The two of us