bphys
24 Cologne, Germany
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My self-summary
UPDATE: I'm working in Cologne for a month so would love to meet up with someone for a couple of drinks and to explore the city after work!

First things first - (nb. read at least the first couple of paragraphs before you judge what I'm saying here!)

Are you attractive?
Do you have a nice body?

Are you intelligent?
Are you a good person?

I don't much care for the objective answers to the first two questions.

I'm not even too concerned with the third. But I do care about your own subjective view, because the chances are, if you like yourself, then I will like you too. I don't really mind what you are into, or what you do for a living, if you like it and I'm interested in you then I will find it interesting. I don't care what you wear or where you like to hang out. I don't care where you are from, what mistakes you have made, what colour your hair is, how old you are, or anything else for that matter. That said - nobody is perfect, so if you can't see any room for self improvement then . . . best be moving on.

Felt like I needed to get that off my chest - its how I see the world and a big part of how I interact with people. I love to have my knowledge of the world stretched.

Now onto less serious stuff :)

Hi! I'm Ben.

I want to meet some new and fun people outside of my current friendship groups, and it would be nice to find someone to hang out with near me!

I know myself and my own mind, but I'm always open to new ideas or the viewpoints of others. I'm a pretty chilled, laid back kind of person for the most part.

I am looking mostly for someone to 'date' - as in literally take on dates. I'm also looking for new friends. I seem to be getting endless invitations to events and fun nights out but never have anyone to go with. So if you like the idea of being taken out every once in a while then drop me a line - (I'm a big fan of women who aren't afraid to make the first move!)
What I’m doing with my life
Working too hard as an automotive consultant. I split my time now between Coventry, Surrey, London and Leeds, so if you're in one of these places I want to hear from you! Most of the time I love what I do, but it's pretty long hours, hopefully they will be coming down a little soon!

I just moved to a lovely place in Wimbledon with a gorgeous view and splurged on the nicest sheets I could find, and I'm loving my home!
I’m really good at
Maths, Physics and science in general. The universe still blows my mind, even after four years trying to get to grips with it full time. I studied Physics at Oxford, so I'm happy to talk about it for hours.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies; Likes: Explosions, Romance, Comedy, Love, Tragedy, Suspense, Monsters, Aliens, Scary shit, Cute things, Superheros, Violence, Adventure...

I fucking love the minion films. Don't judge!

Dislikes: Stupid amounts of violence. Bad plots. People who are noisy in the cinema.
The six things I could never do without
Oxygen, water, shelter, food . . . . Ok we all get the joke. Aside from the necessities for life - friends, family, a goal (yes - like a 'life goal'), music, sports and freedom (oOwwwwww the cliché!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the hell it is that I've forgotten to do...

How to get more time off.

What to do with the time I do get off!
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends in some context.

There's no such thing as a typical Friday night though! I sometimes attend events like KSL and TG. I sometimes need a quiet one to myself. I'm still confused about the whole 'netflix and chill' thing. I really do like to watch netflix and chill!
You should message me if
You follow through. I don't mind if you're looking for casual, serious, friendship, aren't really sure or just have some really random want or desire, just don't be flaky. If you say you are going to do something - do it! If that's you then go ahead - shoot me a message :)
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