37Rock Island, United States
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My self-summary
***I am currently seeing , and by seeing someone I mean married, so yeah. It's pretty serious. I am only looking for friends/activity partners at this point in time, and maybe a female "friend" for the wife and myself ;) ***

I am sensitive but I am protective of my home and my family. I try to be as understanding and patient as I can, I have ambitions and goals. I am not looking for casual sex but more to date casually. Dating is fine, it is the beginning, I am looking for something long-term eventually. I'm not looking for a LTR right out of the gate, or even within a few months. I think the emotions needed for that type of relationship need to grow naturally not be forced.

If you like to hold hands and dance in public, we'll probably get along. I think kissing that special someone on the forehead or cheek is sweet. I believe the truth isn't always what we want to hear but it's what we NEED to hear. I will do my best to make you laugh and feel wonderful about yourself, I ask for the same in return.

Some would say I am very laid back, and I do MY best to remain drama free. I own and operate a thriving janitorial company. I make my own schedule so time is never really a problem, unless I have my children. When I don't have my kids, I will drop what I am doing and call them daily at bed time. If you have children I'm almost positive you know how I feel.

I am Often very clean cut. I'm a grown man and I like to dress fairly nice. I am always up for going shopping for new clothes ... I like to shop, how weird is that? ... And I would like your input. I have a compulsive need to share interests e.g. if I hear a new song I like, I'm trying to make everybody around me listen to it. I figure, if I like it and it makes me happy, well then it might make them happy as well.

This is me in a nutshell.
I’m really good at
I'm a decent artist...who am I kidding, I am pretty spectacular in any given day. Seriously though a long time ago I had mild success as a graphic artist (comic books).
The first things people usually notice about me
My stature, I'm built like a line backer. I'm a big cuddly guy. I'm working on losing weight, I'm very broad shouldered and somewhat firm but I'm never going to be trim no matter how much weight I lose.

And my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
You have gotta love TV and Movies. Currently I am marathoning supernatural, scrubs and dexter all with different friends of mine. If I could find somebody I can go out and have fun with (shopping, river walk, bowling etc...) until 8 or 9pm then go snuggle up and watch a few shows or movies that would be awesome. I am not that into sports, going to a game is one thing but I have never gotten into watching sports on the T.V. .

I listen to a variety of music from Aerosmith to Eminem, NIN to Richard Wagner. I used to volunteer and do work in the theater so I like musicals also.
Six things I could never do without
1. My children
2. Sex (Yes, I'm a horrible bad person, I know.)
3. My vision, I'm an artist, I'm very visual, life without sight would be torture!
4. Friends and family
5. Television/Movies ... at least I'm honest
6. Showers ... I hate to smell.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the future, the past and the present. I think about parenting and then dissect things in my mind.

For example :
Winnie the Pooh, I used to not like Winnie the Pooh no educational value whatsoever. Then I had kids, and I saw it more social skills and then I think oh what personality types are missing and then I try to figure out what animal would portray that personality type and then I see something shiny and all that is gone ... this is how my mind works.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Because of a now hilarious situation that happened to me, I don't get embarrassed easily. NO topic is taboo for me. Just send me a email and ask if you are curious. *This is an adult orientated story so if you get offended by adult anecdotes don't ask. You have been warned.*
You should message me if
If you are unique.
If you LOVE stimulating conversation.
If you can just sit back and relax.
If you are female want to make new friends with the wife and myself.
The two of us