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My self-summary
go on a date with me! let's do fun, adventurous things and stay up all night making each other laugh and think. Challenge and inspire me.

I am currently single and not looking for a serious relationship. So dates would be fun but most likely not lead towards a serious relationship. FYI.

I'm queer, an artist, an anthropologist, a fat activist, and somebody interested in conscious and spiritual living. If any of those categories make you think hm, wtf? that's cool - I don't need to date a clone of myself!

I'm a third culture kid: although I'm American, I grew up in Japan and Brazil. Really I just use this as an excuse whenever I don't know American pop culture or history references ;)
What I’m doing with my life
exploring how to live in a meaningful way that benefits myself and those around me. blah blah blah -- reading those words probably doesn't land as well as it would in person. concretely I'm working mostly in the arts.
I’m really good at
asking questions
writing letters
going out of my way to be nice
organizing dinner parties
getting silly giggly and moving my body
The first things people usually notice about me
that I'm grounded and happy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love India Arie... and many others, but she's at the top. I love Songza playing DJ for me.

books... anything that can help me think. and laugh :)

to be honest I'm not that into various media. especially not TV. I can like some stuff enough, but I prioritize DOING and BEING more.

Food, on the other hand... food is an important part of living. I love a variety of food - the most important thing is the love with which it is created and consumed.
Six things I could never do without
my five finger toe shoes
my friends and family.

and yes, I realize that many of those are not actually things. I try not to be too attached to material items. But I do love my toe shoes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I can learn and grow as a person
On a typical Friday night I am
having a long, relaxing dinner / hanging out with people in some capacity
out dancing somewhere
at a play party
You should message me if
you love yourself and your body
you have dreams/ambitions
you like to think, have serious conversations AND to be silly
you are down to earth and like to laugh
The two of us