28Bethesda, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a confident person who knows what they want and goes after it. I currently work at an architecture firm in Bethesda. What you see is what you get. I'm a very matter of fact kind of person.

I'm looking for a committed relationship. My ideal woman is strong, driven, informed and knows what she wants from her life and her partner. Also I'm not paying for this anymore so if you want to see if we click you have to message me. I won't see your likes.
What I’m doing with my life
I work at an architecture firm as a Senior Environmental Graphic Designer. And on my downtime and sometimes for work I'm a part-time traveler love getting away when I can. I've been to the Cayman Islands, Mexico, Colombia, UAE, Italy, Turkey and all over the U.S. The the next excursion is Saudi Arabia then hopefully France and Russia.

I'm also a casual singer in my church choir and in a local gospel group, got to get my performance fix somewhere lol?
I’m really good at
Listening when I need to, and speaking my mind when necessary. I guess im good at getting to the root of the problem. Oh and dancing I really like partner dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Idk, See for yourself
IG: Hautecontriver

And apprently, ive been told I love to laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
R&B, Neo Soul, Jazz, Hip Hop, 60's-80's, Rock, Classical, Folk, Gospel

Favorite song of the moment: I Like It, Debarge

Watching: Greenleaf, Empire, Suits, the Strain, Scandal, Grey's Anatomy, How to get away with Murder, New Girl, Bones, Vikings, VEEP, Suits and more... what would i do without DVR lol.
Six things I could never do without
God, (He has never left me or foresaken me)
Love of Family and Friends
The City
A good glass of Whiskey
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All the things....
On a typical Friday night I am
Depending on the week Ive had at work, out and about! Or at home watching my DVR.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to cuddle.
You should message me if
You're sure of yourself and you're just looking for that helpmate to set it off right.

NOTICE: This is a must! Don't message me if you aren't looking for a committed relationship in the near future. By no means do I want to rush anything. But I'm not looking for just another friend, I have plenty of those (positions have been filled). I'm looking for a helpmate. So if you're not ready to begin any kind of long term relationship, please be honest with yourself and me, thanks.
The two of us