brettluminais
26 Westmont, United States
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My self-summary
Disclaimers: Happily engaged and practicing consensual non-monogamy, currently living with my fiance and her boyfriend Kevin, this is not a couple profile looking for unicorns or potential threesomes.

My life is...
A day to day gladiator battle: laziness vs. productivity, activity (or hyperactivity) vs. hermitism, extraversion vs. introversion, and now appearing in the Colosseum, IPA vs. stout.
Cheesy puns.
Coffee and sushi binges.
Getting up at 6:15 almost everyday.
Using sentence fragments when I know better.
Ritual, oh, how I love all the different sorts of rituals there are.
Kinky/kink friendly.
Being a thoughtful omnivore (Google it).
Bike rides.
A jam session.
A jug of whiskey.
A carafe/multiple carafes of coffee.
Redundancy.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a bit busy these days; spending my weekdays as a Youth Services Librarian. In my off time, I'm probably drinking a bit more coffee/beer/whiskey than I should, and playing around with my somewhat sub-par recording equipment or guitar, or watching too many TV shows online.
I’m really good at
Being me; that includes information literacy, endurance guitar playing, coffee drinking, walking, writing poetry while riding trains, and stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
My lips probs; I have a grotesque permapout. I have also been told I'm funny. I hope that is so.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh jeez. I'll give you authors: Flannery O'Connor, Graham Greene, C.S. Lewis, Stephen King, Richard Russo, Evelyn Waugh, Robert Heinlein, Homer, Virgil, William Blake, Walker Percy, T.S. Elliot, Cormac McCarthy, Isaac Asimov, Neal Stephenson, Dan Simmons, etc. (These are just guys I can read over and over, they in no way comprise all of my reading materials). Just finished reading Cyteen by C. J. Cherryh.

Top 5 movies (in no particular order and frequently changing): Drive; Master and Commander; Lock, Stock, and Two Smoking Barrels; Jesus Christ Superstar; Moon.

TV shows: Star Trek: Next Generation; Star Trek, anything but Enterprise; American Dad; Futurama; Scrubs; Bob's Burgers; Vikings; Peaky Blinders; Steven Universe; Gravity Falls; Adventure Time.

Music (this is not a complete list of my favorites): everything from Mayhem, Slayer, Indian, Iron Maiden, Tool, Death, early Metallica, Megadeth, etc. to Jeff Buckley, Elliott Smith, Porcupine Tree, Bob Dylan, Amanda Palmer, Townes Van Zandt, Rodriguez, Dire Straits, Guster, and Cake , and speaking of food... My favorite dish is Steak Tartare.
The six things I could never do without
My brothers, a guitar, songs to play, stories, woods to walk in, open and earnest communication.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How summer reading will likely drive me crazy, what library jobs I'm going to apply for next, music, people's actions, literary theory, philosophy, libraries, that itch behind your left eye at two a.m., and probably a lot of other stupid stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Jammin' (and I'd like to be jammin' with you), walking around in the woods, at a bar, practicing music, or something else. I've also got a fairly terrible addiction to Skyrim and Fallout: New Vegas.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm migratory: I move from one source of coffee to the next.
You should message me if
...you read all of this and want to read more.
...you will message me first; ain't nobody got time for gender norms.
...you have a reference question.
...you want to improve your information literacy.
...you are/want to be poly.
...you like trees some of the time.
...you ride bikes.
...you can put up with someone who can be loquacious and then silent for hours.
...you like unnecessary and uncommon words.
...you like listening to order emerge from chaos.
...you like long walks and intelligent talks.
...you want to make music with me.
...I make you laugh.
...you never give up and you're into constant improvement.
...you know and/or like dinosaurs.
...you want to share some vegetarian recipes with me.
...you want to tell me I'm pretty (dammit, I know I'm pretty!).
...you want to play Dungeons and Dragons. No, seriously, it's been a while, and I'm itching for a good game.
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