45Brighton, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
I am in a long-term, open, mutually non-monogomous relationship. I enjoy flirting online, meeting interesting people, and if something more intimate develops, that's great, if not - I hope I have made a fun new friend.

I spend too much time thinking and not enough time doing, though I still seem to manage to get a lot done.

I love Brighton, and plan to live here for the rest of my life. I love the clutter and the chaos. And the beauty and the mystery. I love finding short cuts I never new existed, or an obscure DVD in a second hand shop, or a pair of shoes dangling from a telegraph wire.

I like to think that I'm intelligent without being pretentious. I enjoy a really good conversation where I can learn a new perspective. I am quite well read but cannot spell for toffee.
What I’m doing with my life
Working; staying up too late and not getting enough sleep; trying to maintain that balance of things I have to do and things I want to so and trying to work out which is which.
I’m really good at
Joined up thinking; seeing the positive side of life; cutting through the nonsense.

Survival horror videogames - Silent Hill is my not-very-secret obsession.

Critical theory; knot tying; multidisciplinarity (sp?).

I can guess the plot of most episodes of The Simpsons by watching the beginning bit which has nothing to do with the main story.
The first things people usually notice about me
My high contrast features - like something from a black and white movie on a HD television.

That I look like Jack out of Lost

I am wearing a suit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In order:

'Less Than Zero' by Bret Easton Ellis, 'Carrie' by Stephen King, 'Crash' by JG Ballard, 'Catch 22' by Joseph Heller, 'The Bloody Chamber' by Angela Carter.

'Brazil', Eraserhead, 'Shadow of a Doubt', 'Bitter Moon', 'Raising Arizona', 'Bound', 'Timer', 'Pleasantville'.

'Buffy', 'Friendship is Magic', 'Arrested Development', 'Battlestar Galactica', 'Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt'.

The Breeders, Throwing Muses, Talking Heads, Go Team, Amanda Fucking Palmer.

Curry, spagetti, whiskey.
Six things I could never do without
internet access
spell checkers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why birds flying in formation over Brighton peer never bump into each other.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending the evening with my two children who are awesome. Watching 'Gravity Falls' and 'My Little Pony' and 'Steven Universe'. Eating popcorn and cheesy poofs. Playing Lego videogames and Phoenix Wright.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am pierced in several places, but you cannot tell when I am fully clothed.
You should message me if
You are open minded and fancy some stimulating company.
The two of us