30Schenectady, United States
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My self-summary
Eventually would like to find the Lily to my Marshall. If you get that reference, we'll get along just fine lol.

I'm Ben, and I'm too awesome to describe in a box full of text, so I'll just give ya the basics...just moved back to the Albany/Schenectady area, moved from North Carolina and all over Florida before that. I'm a very laid back guy who loves to laugh and have fun. Up for most anything, whether its going out, fun on the beach, movies, or relaxing at home; as long as it's with someone fun and interesting it doesn't matter what we're doing. There's so much missing from this but I'm not great at describing myself in a little box, hoping it's in a way that makes someone go "Hey I gotta meet this guy!" lol do gotta meet me ;-). Or ya could miss out, up to you

I'm open to seeing where things go with someone, especially if ya can make me laugh and vice versa. And hey, ya never know, might just find something like this:

"its the way they look at you, like no matter what life is throwing our way, it can't be that bad, because you're there. its knowing without any doubt that just being near each other is enough to make you both completely content. that spark, that chemistry, that undeniable feeling that the world just isnt as bright or colorful without them in it."
What I’m doing with my life
Living. Laughing. And the whole reason I've come here, Loving :-)
I’m really good at
Cooking, writing
The first things people usually notice about me
If they're close enough, it is always my eyes for some reason.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Dresden Files, A Song of Ice and Fire (the show Game of Thrones is based on these books), Farseer Trilogy

Movies - I love movies, I can usually find something to like in almost anything. Off top of my head some that have always stuck out personally are; A Knight's Tale, Newsies, Memento, Count of Monte Cristo, and so, so many lol.

TV - Burn Notice, Psych, White Collar, How I Met Your Mother, Game of Thrones, Rome, Justified, Archer, Parks and Rec, Leverage, Friends (yeah, can't help it), That 70's Show, Family Guy, Community (Troy and Abed in the mooorrnniinng)

Music - Mostly Country and Classic Rock, but not bs'ing when I say I like most anything outside those two genres, from Lil Wayne to Disturbed and Godsmack
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. I love to write, and sometimes get random story ideas that play out like a scene from a movie in my imagination, spurred by completely random happenstance lol :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm willing to admit quite a bit! Just gotta ask me whichever one you're thinking about
You should message me if
(Any one of these, not all of them required, Lol not that picky, c'mon now)

- You love to laugh and have fun as much as you
can get away with
- You love the movie A Knight's Tale (it's been on alot lately, that's why it's on my mind this much lol)
- You want to find a genuinely nice guy, who has learned that being nice doesn't mean push over, but does mean I know how to treat a lady right
- Even if you're just looking for an awesome person to add to who you chill with around here :-), I get along with everyone and always looking to find more interesting people to meet

Hit me up! Here or...
Just clarify somewhere early in the email that you found me here, maybe a link back to your cupid profile, Facebook, or Instagram. Just so I know it's not spam or some other shyte lol. Not Twitter tho, sorry I don't have one (still managing to avoid tweeting) and not gonna sign up to check someone's :-P
The two of us