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My self-summary
Seek a beautiful lady to enjoy romantic dinners, Sushi, BBQ,traveling, outdoor activities including fishing/ hunting/ canoeing / Farmer's market at the River Quay/snow skiing /bicycling/horseback riding in the mountains or beach/ visiting wineries /driving jeeps in the Ozark mountains ( Aux Arcs in French) / attending music festivals including the Silver Dollar City Blue Grass/BBQ festival in Branson, Missouri or the Crayfish Zedecko festival in Breaux Bridge, Louisiana.

It is time for me to smell the flowers and share success with one special lady for the rest of our lives.

"If one sits quietly, a butterfly will land on his shoulder, but if pursued she will fly away"-----that is my philosophy in attracting a special lady. Short term dating can lead to long relationship which is the goal.

I reside in Kansas City ( City of Fountains with only Rome having more fountains ) which is a sister city of Seville, Spain and is rated as one of the most elegant cities in America due to a high quality of life.

We are known for world famous BBQ, professional sports ( Chiefs in the football Playoffs and Royals winning the WORLD SERIES ), American Royal rodeo / horse show, and Jazz/Blues music.

I have traveled the world including Europe, Israel, Club Med island resorts, Hawaii, Alaska, and lived in Dallas, San Francisco, New Orleans, Oklahoma City, and close to Santa Fe, New Mexico, but moved back home to Kansas City to be close to family and roots.
What I’m doing with my life
Commercial finance is my profession ( MBA/ChFc, Kansas University alumni ) as CEO of my own company, give to the poor and starving children at www , enjoy Blues and Blue Grass music and played trumpet professionally years ago , am an avid fisherman for trout/walleye/ crappie/ smallmouth bass/pan fish----and hunt deer/turkey/ wild boar/ pheasants/quail for cuisine.

Canoe scenic Ozark streams including the Big Piney and Buffalo Rivers, horseback ride along the scenic Current River in the Ozarks taking pictures of elk, snow ski , explore wineries near Hermann , Missouri along the scenic Katy Trail , dance Salsa , play tennis in the summer league at the Plaza, watch professional sports, attend basketball ( KU Jayhawks NCAA champions), and hike/bike along Indian Creek.

Travel often to the scenic Ozark Boston mountains around Eureka Springs, Arkansas or Eminence, Missouri on the Current River for relaxation, fishing and waking up to heavenly scenery. Click on
I’m really good at
Making my special angel experience sexual ecstasy making love in the Jacuzzi, shower, bubble bath, water bed, and rubbed with oil during oriental and oral massage . Heaven will be waking up everyday to her beautiful eyes with passionate kisses and serving her breakfast in bed.

A man cannot crush his mate with love, control her, nor make an idol of her --he must grant her freedom to fulfill her mission in life-- woman was created for man as a help mate. Long lasting love with daily intimacy is my desire to come together with one earth angel with a kindred spirit.

The Special lady will be a diamond in the rough and worth the twenty one year wait-- only her heart of compassion and love for the Lord is relevant. Race, age , geography, or color are not relevant ---but only her character, maturity, and inner beauty matters plus love and respect for each other.

Marriage does not begin at the altar of man ---but when the Lord to puts couples together with a " Holy covenant and sacrament to bond them together until they enter heaven. " But wedding ceremonies are beautiful especially on beautiful beaches with pink -orchids in her hair or at Bridal Falls in Telluride, Colorado.

Her sweet calls will be the nectar of heaven as a gift from God especially in times of sorrow--a Proverbs 31 woman of God is a blessing from the Lord.

Proverbs 13:10 says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains the favor of the Lord" Ephesians 5:22-33 must be the formula for our relationship. Proverbs 31:30 says " Charm is deceitful and beauty fading, but a Woman who fears the Lord is to be praised."
The first things people usually notice about me
Extrovert, giver, relaxed, confident, patient, laid back, with a positive attitude and treats ladies with ultimate respect, compassionate with the ability to comfort hurting people, and provide love and encouragement to her in time of sorrow to dry her tears.

I can be recognized wearing designer jeans, leather jacket with straw cowboy hat from Santa Fe ( New Mexico), elk hide boots, and driving a Blue Jeep Limited .

I am spiritual ( kind, loving, filled with grace, mercy, respect, forgiveness, faithfulness, and humility ) vs religious ( legalistic, intolerant, mean, critical spirit, and bondage based ), and am a very good listener with a soft heart to love a lady.

One must look deep into my mate's eyes which are the window to her soul to understand her heart and help her to grow into the perfection of God and protect her emotionally, financially, spiritually, and physically.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Enjoy Blues, Reggae, and all types of music with BBQ, sushi , seafood and am a gourmet chef at my townhouse.

Romantic or action packed movies are my first love , attend the Kemper Performing Arts Center, and Starlight theatre for concerts and watch professional soccer.

My favorite movie may be "Jeremiah Johnson" due to my love for the outdoors and riding horses in the high country, but I love the TV programs Touched by an ANGEL, Duck Dynasty, the SWAMP PEOPLE in Louisiana , Mountain Men, and the Woodsman on the History Channel .
Six things I could never do without
Loving a special lady , my wonderful family who are elderly parents ( 94/93 in May 2016 ) residing in assisted living here in Kansas City , sister and her family in Texas, Ozark mountain scenery, and relative's 1200 acre cattle ranch on Lake Pomme De Terre, canoeing Ozark streams, staying fit , snow skiing, cooking gourmet dinners for my earth angel whenever she arrives.

---- feeding starving children in Africa and across the world, and most importantly my daily prayer, study of the Bible, and listening to worship music ---- the Lord is the guiding light of my life and source of wisdom and success.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Passion, hope, falling in love, joy, success, positive vibes, vision for direction , happiness in life, praying for others, studying about the soon coming of Christ.
On a typical Friday night I am
Listening to Blues/Jazz music at BBs Lawnside BBQ or Dannys, watching professional sports , dancing at the Power & Light District , or attending concerts at the Kauffman Arts Center or the Starlight theater during the summer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a desire to love one special lady who is my best friend and companion for the rest of my life, and the yearnings of my heart can only be shared with her in complete trust.

The Lord is the matchmaker and" let no man put asunder what the Lord puts together." The "Marriage Covenant" begins when the Lord brings the woman to the man per the story of Adam and Eve in Genesis 2:22,25.

I pray mercy and grace on ladies who have suffered an unwanted divorce like myself with mates going into adultery who departed from the faith as mine did 21 years ago.

A Royal Blue Sapphire ring standing for one of the 12 foundations in heaven surrounded by 12 diamonds for 12 gates of heaven with a gold inlay ( Revelations 21:19-21 standing for heaven) is appropriate for the left hand of my special angel, and the Yeshua ring ( Translated Jesus in Hebrew hand made in Jerusalem at the House of Shalom during a trip in 1985 ) will be shifted on my right left hand when the Lord unites us as one spirit.

A pink rose might be given weekly for the rest of her life to tell her she is beautiful and loved. Maybe we could travel to a pink sand beach in Eleuthra in the Caribbean Islands dining on Giant Mexican Lobsters sipping peach wine as love nectar to enhance romance ?

or maybe the lady would prefer a dinner sailboat cruise watching the sun go down in the ocean with dolphins jumping off Santa Barbara, California.

Let me help make 2016 a wonderful year for you and treat you like the Queen of Sheba and become my Bride, or Significant other, fall in love, and TELL THE WORLD-- "I AM TAKEN while we listen to the song of the late Whitney Houston---I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU".
You should message me if
You want to be treated like a Queen with much affection by a man with a listening and caring heart, and become my BRIDE, Soul Mate, Significent other, Romantic Lover, Special Angel, Best friend, and FALL IN LOVE.

I pray a blessing on every lady who views my profile to be granted her heart's desire for the perfect soul mate per the promise of Psalms 20:4.

The Lord's delays are not His denials but testing or the perfect mate is not ready-- yes, no or WAIT are the answers from on the Lord. My wait has been 21 years.

Proverbs 13:12 says: "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life." But one must seek the Lord first, and all things will be added unto Him including mates IF it be His Will.

Sometimes the Lord sets us aside to serve Him alone without a mate due to a higher calling per I Corinthians 7:27 which instructs us not to seek a mate in the final second before His Coming unless united with one of a kindred spirit.

Psalms 37:4 says "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desire of your heart." An Angel of the Lord brought Rebecca to Isaac as his bride in Genesis 24 and the Lord brought Eve to Adam.

Marriage represents "Christ and His Bride as a sacred covenant " with a 95% marital success rate for Christian couples:

-----who are Born again/ take communion together often/ anoint each other with oil and baptized with the Holy Spirit/ fast and pray / listen to worship music /lead the lost to Christ/ forgive each other daily / against abortion except for rape/incest/death of the mother/ and make love often with complete loyalty as lifetime partners.

Perhaps we could meet for brunch at French creperie in Kansas City....or enjoy Brazilian cuisine at located in our famous Plaza Shopping district or the ladies choice ?

Springtime is the time for love when the flowers bloom and birds sing with June weddings !

Sweet dreams,

The two of us