51Monte Sereno, United States
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My self-summary
My personality traits include patience, communicative and a long-term thinker. When I feel comfortable enough with you, my slightly dark sense of humor comes out. Some of my interests include following sports, taking daily walks, taking Bachata lessons, weekly yoga, tai chi, cooking and movies.

Both being a Bay Area native along with being the youngest of 5 in a pretty dynamic family have both been big influences on me. My work is entrepreneurial in nature. Family lives near by so I see them regularly.
My hope is to find a life partner where we compliment each other. WE dont have to be soul mates, although that would be wonderful, but maybe helping each other develop our souls: to do what we came here to do. IT's easier this way. ;) It's hard to articulate in terms of who that special someone would be, although it will be pretty obvious when I see her. This special someone would be a bit more outgoing than I am along with being independent emotionally and financially and knows we can really assist one another in being more than the sum of our parts - basically, reaching our potential.

I could envision the relationship would be quick in terms of courting, because we are ready, including spiritually physically, emotionally and mentally. Plus, we dont want to waist each other's precious time.
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching people how to be at ease. In fact, being at ease is my primary focus. Second and third include finding someone special as well as developing my business in order to continue doing what I desire and earn the living I desire.
I’m really good at
Showing Patience, resourcefulness and foresight. Learning about myself with more and more 'aha' moments. Visually imagining success. Living a sensual life. Adding up numbers for numerolgy compatibilities. Verbal communication. Dancing in rhythm. Kissing. Giving a Tantric massage.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes get the most compliments, although sometimes they say my eyes are so serious, :). Maybe it is my voice. Patience with people comes naturally to me, in most cases, although unruly people and situations get to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Just saw White Palace for the first time in a while with Susan Sarandon and James Spader. It has been put in my top 10. The chemistry is pretty unbelievable. The Secretary, also with Spader and Maggie G. Recent movies include "I Am Love", an Italian film which is now in my top 5 or 10 movies of all time. Also saw "On the Waterfront" in full, which is also in my top 10. "The Hangover" was extremely funny, especially the scene towards the end when the confident guy was starting to lose it in the desert and was calling the bachelor's fiance. The sequels were highly disappointing. Watched It's a Wonderful Life over Christmas "15. It was showing at the downtown newly renovated theatre on a Sunday morning. Proud of myself I got up since it was raining and had a rare day off from the farmers' market. Funny it took so long to see it, since I had seen so many clips over the years. Maybe because it came at such a needed time, it may be my favorite movie ever.

Movies : The Matrix (especially interactions between Neo and three of the other main characters: the Oracle, Trinity and Morpheus); Just saw My Cousin Vinnie, Life of Pi, The Girl Next Door, Sleepwalking with Me, Leap Year (very cute Romantic Comedy, Mao's Last Dancer, Forest Gump, Sideways, Crash, Terms of Endearment, Saturday Night Fever, Titanic, Animal House, Caddyshack, The Truman Show, The Cable Guy (highly underrated), Dumb and Dumber, Legally Wed, Management, Dirty Dancing, Fargo, The Godfather, Goodfellas, Its a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World, Sex and Other Drugs, Sex, Lies and Videotapes, Old School, The Secret (from a spiritual perspective), Pretty Woman, Fargo, etc
Note: As you can see, very eclectic and not always the most mature of films. Dark comedy is a vice of mine.

TV includes HBOgo : Enlightened, Hung, The Killing, The Mentalist, CNBC Restaurant Startup, Inspector Morse on PBS is a new discovery.

Books: Just read Neal Donald Walsh's book on Holistic Living and also Conversations with God is an inspiration. Also read "In Her Shoes" by Jennifer Weiner and "On the Way to the Wedding" by Julia Quinn. "A Separate Reality", Finding Your Soul Mate by Michael, Here at the End of the World We learn To Dance by Lloyd Jones, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Buddhism: Plain and Simple, Sex and Psychic Sexual Energy by Betty Bethards, My first book was James and The Giant Peach. The first really interesting book I can remember reading was The Godfather. I enjoyed the movies too, especially the first one.

Music: Classical is what I listen to most, now - KDFC is on most of the time. Bands include U2, Santana, Marvin Gaye, the Beatles, Whitney Houston (when she gets way up there), Dave Mathews Band, Lynard Skynard, The Eagles, Phil Collins, New age stuff, even some country. Adele, Lady Gaga are talented ladies.

Food: Korean Food is my favorite (if I had one meal to eat), Thai, Chinese is the only food I can eat every day for months and months but even that can get old; Cheese Burgers, good Pizza; fruits and veggies at every meal except breakfast. Peaches (2 week window during late summer) where there is nothing better (especially when I haven't eaten sweets in a while), bananas. Smoothies and juicing are great. Raw Food is something I am getting into, along with eating range fed beef.

Just a note about drinking. Although I don't drink (never was motivated to learn how to drink in moderation, if you catch my drift), dating someone who drinks in moderation is ok. It wouldn't probably be a fit if the person consumes a lot. However, there have been drinkers around me so it feels relatively comfortable to be around them. Not really into the bar scene, though. Obviously, being around non-drinkers is ok, too.

I have been to about 10 countries in Asia, including Japan, Korea, the Philippines, Thailand, Singapore and Malaysia. I have lived in China, Hong Kong and Taiwan for a total of 3 years. It really makes you appreciate what we have here in the Bay Area. In Europe, I have visited Germany. My plan is to visit England, Ireland, France and Spain. Italy would be nice too.
Six things I could never do without
Walk through my neighborhood, Notes for/from coaching, My book Buddhism Plain and Simple, my laptop and an internet connection (now my Samsung), pen and paper, meditation, carob chips, figs and smoothies (which includes carob powder, bananas, apples, walnuts, hemp-chia-flax seeds, coconut oil, purple yam powder and water), a good movie, yoga and tai chi, ...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be at ease. How to be happy. How to reach my current desires: marrying the right woman, right now, having my freelancing and consulting business full and filled which would include teaching and packaging my "Darkness is the Stairway to Heaven" class which is about abundance, non-resistance and how you really can change your life right now- I did and do! Being at ease during windfalls and pitfalls. Wondering why it is taking so long for the woman of my dreams to present herself. I am a patient guy, but my goodness. HeHe. What I can do to encourage her to present herself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching TV (romantic comedy movie, sports, PBS documentary), on the internet or cooking or eating a snack after a meal, going out for a nice meal, maybe even dancing or going for a nice walk. Sometimes, I am doing the laundry.

A possible first date would be meeting for coffee, being honest with each other to see if we are a match. Continually being honest with each other while going for dinner, dancing, a movie, the beach, etc on the next several dates , as well as emails, text messages and phone calls.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Astrology and numerology are important to me- feel free to ask me about it.
You should message me if
You are a good listener. You are a talker. Your heart is open or opening. You feel like we would be a good match. You know that even though there is a lot of criteria we could look for in terms of astrology, numerology and more, that we can feel that it is right. You know yourself. You are feeling intrigued or at least a bit curious and my profile resonates with you. You think a message is like a way of showing interest not just for friends but you think there might be a connection long term. You think there is chemistry or aren't quite sure and think meeting will clear it up for you. ;)
The two of us