butterfly1949
67 Providence, United States
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My self-summary
Charlie, come home!
Sensual, worldly, female in search of emotionally and financially secure male. God I know you're out there! Be funny , eclectic , eccentric and happy in life, as I am those things. I like art, in its many forms of expression, good food, lively conversations, and also beautiful silence. Have reverence for nature, be in control of your baggage. You don't have to be Ken, I'm not Barbie, but your beauty must radiate from within, as my friends have told me mine does. Besides, Ken is a dud.
What I’m doing with my life
My focus is writing poetry. Busy with other things too.
I’m really good at
Pushing my boundaries.
I like a man who loves to give.
I'm an excellent cook.
I have a terrific sense of color and I'm great at creating comfortable and interesting spaces.
I collect and make art.
Giving advice to those who seek it. I have a joy for life and teach laughter. My garden is amazing, flowers, fruit, veggies, a hammock and chickens all in the city of Providence.
I think sex is sacred, healthy and fun! pot's communion.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea, and at this point, don't give a damn. But perhaps they catch my quick wit, joy of life, generous spirit?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Alabama Shakes! Kendrick Lamar! Van! So much music....The Four Agreements, Catcher in the Rye, the poet Jack Gilbert, Leaves of Grass, The House at Pooh Corner. Mysteries! Murder, detectives! The Magician Trilogy. So many books. I love picking up old books and reading passages out loud to the dogs. I think they actually like it! I also love a good mystery. Movies. Room with a View. I"m a romantic, plus it's the first film where I remember seeing a penis and thought "well, it's about time!" Everything from opera, blues, jazz, r and b, hip hop, even some rap. I love good food. Good fresh yummy food. Summer corn and tomatoes!
The six things I could never do without
I can't live without some kind of lipstick or chapstick.
good, healthy, fresh food
friends, intimacy, love, great sex
music....rips me open...art too
my very independent children and grandchildren
my dogs and my chickens who bring me such joy
I need something to read, I love dancing around my living room blasting music. You!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
In 2006 I was in Lebanon for a wedding and a little war broke out. After a few days, with friends, I escaped to Aleppo Syria. The people
I met there were excited to meet the rare American. They were kind, hospitable and generous of spirit. I often wonder what has happened to those good people. I feel thankful that somehow I got this really very privileged life when others, just as deserving or more, didn't.
On a typical Friday night I am
who knows? Up for nearly anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty much an open book although there are lots of layers. If we become friends, I will want you to get to know me well and I hope you will feel the same.
You should message me if
If you are laid back, like to read books, write, meditate; if you are secure and healthy; you are socially adept; have a great sense of humor; love life and know your way around a woman's body. If you like to eat in little home cooking dives and 4* restaurants; I'm fairly sophisticated and it would help if you know something about art and culture, or not, who knows? I'm interested in love.

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