butterfly1949
67 Providence, United States
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My self-summary
First off, and I'm sorry I need to say this, if you voted for tRUMP, please don't contact me. Just don't. I need to get Rooted and want someone who is totally out of the box. Gadunkadunk. I am a sensual, worldly woman in search of an emotionally and financially secure male. God I know you're out there! Be funny, eclectic, eccentric, happy and open to love. I love art, good food, lively, intelligent conversations, and also beautiful silence. Have reverence for nature, be in control of your baggage. Be local and delicious!
What I’m doing with my life
My focus is writing poetry. Busy with other things too. Kickboxing! I travel when I can and have been to 20 countries or more and most of the states. I am on a continuous path to learn and take in as much as possible.
I’m really good at
Pushing my boundaries.
writing poetry, I have a partial residency in France Sept & Oct 2017!
I like a man who loves to give.
I'm an excellent cook.
I have a terrific sense of color and I'm great at creating comfortable and interesting spaces.
I collect and make art.
Giving advice to those who seek it. I have a joy for life and teach laughter. My garden is amazing, flowers, fruit, veggies, a hammock and chickens all in the city of Providence.
I think sex is sacred, healthy and fun!
The first things people usually notice about me
"My mighty big hips that go where they want to go, do what they want to do; I have known them to put a spell on a man and spin him like a top!* Lucille Clifton, poet
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Alabama Shakes! Kendrick Lamar! Lil Wayne, Marvin, Miles, Turner Turner, Rascals, Van! So much music....The Four Agreements, Catcher in the Rye, the poet Jack Gilbert, Leaves of Grass, The House at Pooh Corner, Whitman. Mysteries! Murder, detectives! The Magician Trilogy. So many books. I read out loud to the dogs, they like it! Movies. Room with a View. I"m a romantic, plus it's the first film where I remember seeing a penis and thought "well, it's about time!" Everything from opera, blues, jazz, r and b, hip hop, even some rap, African, Italian, French pop. I love good food. Good fresh yummy food. Summer corn and tomatoes! if it's August....a tom sandwich with mayo tout les jours!
The six things I could never do without
My children and grandchildren who all live far away.
good, healthy, yummy, fresh food
friends, intimacy, love, great sex
music, and art
my dogs and my chickens who bring me such joy
I need something to read, I love dancing around my living room blasting music. You!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The election has left me bereft. It seems to get worse and worse daily. Watching The News Hour is painful. I keep thinking I should take a vacation from reading the paper and watching BBC and The News Hour but I also feel like it's a responsibility to know what's going on in the world. It's pretty difficult to see through all the lies and this Russian thing is over the top.
Basically, I tend to think about lots and lots of different things daily. I like thinking. I will never get bored because I have a curious mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
who knows? Up for nearly anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty much an open book although there are lots of layers. If we become friends, I will want you to get to know me well and I hope you will feel the same.
You should message me if
a list of what I'm looking for in a man

curious mind
an avid reader
gets “mind, body, spirit”
cooks
eats good healthy food
is patient and forgiving
meditates
loves snuggling, kissing etc
is strong
satisfied with just me
honest worldly kind sympathetic
traveler
movies and other cultural stuff
slow walks in the woods
hold hands
laughs
sense of humor, dry wit
good sense
empathetic
loving
loving kindness
peaceful
generous
loves touch
supports me
comfortable in jeans, tux or suit but is mostly pretty casual
a good speller (I'm not)
wants to make me happy
best kisser
sacred sexuality
a spiritual, metaphysical bent
I LIKE YOUNGER MEN probably because I'm ridiculously young at heart with a joy for life. I'm interested in love.

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