butterfly1949
67 Providence, United States
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My self-summary
I am a sensual, worldly woman in search of an emotionally and financially secure male. God I know you're out there! Be funny, eclectic, eccentric, happy and open to love. I love art, good food, lively, intelligent conversations, and also beautiful silence. Have reverence for nature, be in control of your baggage.
What I’m doing with my life
My focus is writing poetry. Busy with other things too. Kickboxing! I travel when I can and have been to 20 countries or more and most of the states. I'm sending work out to publishers, cross your fingers for me please. I am on a continuous path to learn and take in as much as possible.
I’m really good at
Pushing my boundaries.
writing poetry
I like a man who loves to give.
I'm an excellent cook.
I have a terrific sense of color and I'm great at creating comfortable and interesting spaces.
I collect and make art.
Giving advice to those who seek it. I have a joy for life and teach laughter. My garden is amazing, flowers, fruit, veggies, a hammock and chickens all in the city of Providence.
I think sex is sacred, healthy and fun!
The first things people usually notice about me
"My mighty big hips that go where they want to go, do what they want to do; I have known them to put a spell on a man and spin him like a top!* Lucille Clifton, poet
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Alabama Shakes! Kendrick Lamar! Lil Wayne, Marvin, Miles, Turner Turner, Rascals, Van! So much music....The Four Agreements, Catcher in the Rye, the poet Jack Gilbert, Leaves of Grass, The House at Pooh Corner, Whitman. Mysteries! Murder, detectives! The Magician Trilogy. So many books. I read out loud to the dogs, they like it! Movies. Room with a View. I"m a romantic, plus it's the first film where I remember seeing a penis and thought "well, it's about time!" Everything from opera, blues, jazz, r and b, hip hop, even some rap, African, Italian, French pop. I love good food. Good fresh yummy food. Summer corn and tomatoes! if it's August....a tom sandwich with mayo tout les jours!
The six things I could never do without
I can't live without some kind of lipstick or chapstick.
good, healthy, fresh food
friends, intimacy, love, great sex
music....rips me open...art too
my very independent children and grandchildren
my dogs and my chickens who bring me such joy
I need something to read, I love dancing around my living room blasting music. You!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have been thinking that, the paper targets police use to practice their shooting, need to be longer to include bullseyes of thighs, calves, arms, hands, etc. why is it necessary to shoot to kill a suspect in the back, arms at their sides, or running away and a color other than white. Black Lives Matter is a reality. I also wonder why many men't post photos taken in the lou.
On a typical Friday night I am
who knows? Up for nearly anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty much an open book although there are lots of layers. If we become friends, I will want you to get to know me well and I hope you will feel the same.
You should message me if
If you think you won't bore the hell out of me and if you are laid back, yet vivacious; if you are secure and healthy; you are socially adept; have wit and charm; love life and know your way around a woman's body. If you like to eat in little home cooking dives and 4* restaurants; I'm fairly sophisticated and it would help if you know something about art and culture, or not, who knows? I'm interested in love.

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