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My self-summary
Newly updated for 2017:

This used to be insanely long; I find it best to be brief now.

I'm a family-oriented guy from an extremely large and close group. In fact, I'm the middle of 9. Have 8 nieces and nephews, and I welcome more of them.

I'm a little bit quirky and always have something humorous to add but won't overly dominate the conversation. I find empathy and compassion to be key. Super good at listening.

I tend to be a bit skeptical. This does not mean that I am jaded. I'm a positive person and am happy. It's just that my mind is open, but not so open that my brain falls out. I'm think it's important to not fall prey to fallacies and to "check your source". Gotta be self aware of the confirmation bias that lives within us all.

I don't really drink. An occasional beer but I don't haven't been drunk in many years. It's just not my thing. No judgments though. Most people enjoy drinking.
What I’m doing with my life
IT Engineer who likes to exercise and stay healthy. Also, laughing at stupid things that may be a little random or childish :D
I’m really good at
Smelling good. Hygiene is important!

Fixing computers.

Spouting random facts about cosmology.

Knowing too much about football.

Having patience and spending time with my little nieces and nephews.
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on the person and the setting, but I smile a lot and am good at making people feel comfortable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music is kind of complicated... I have a love for melodious music without vocals. Some guilty pleasures here. I haven't listened to FM radio... Ever. Top 20 hits aren't really my thing. However, I'm not going to be a dick about the music you love to listen to in your car :).
Six things I could never do without
1-6. My family. That's about it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Future pet names: Mr Balls, Professor Boots, Uncle Socks, and the great Ulysses S Pants.

Cosmology and the wonders of the universe:
Fact and reality is way more wondrous and fascinating than fiction, in my opinion!

What will my life look like in 5-10-15-* years...
On a typical Friday night I am
The same thing we do every night: try to take over the world...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
*I love video games, science fiction, anime, and football. Yep, I'm a guy and a dork. We all have our passions and quirks*

When I was a child, I would repeatedly play the final fight scene in the teenage mutant ninja turtles movies' fight with the shredder and would mimic the fighting choreography move by move. I felt like such a badass...
You should message me if
You're more than random San Diego party every night (everything in moderation, ya?). You are a genuinely good human being who wants to do more good than harm towards others. Please no gay haters and extreme religious girls. I'm all about dating wide variety of cultures and belief backgrounds, but extremism and intolerance is the ultimate deal breaker.

Wait a second, who are we kidding. No girl ever messages first on this thing :)

Good luck!
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