For those of who care to know: my name is Christian. I am not convinced online dating promotes successful or healthy relationships. However, I am pursuing one regardless. Call me nieve but dammit, you're on here too. So lets call it what it is.
I am brutally honest. So here's me:
I work in emergency medicine, I'm a big thinker, self aware, introspective, goal oriented, self promoting and know who I am and what I want. I generally think small talk is for the birds. Theres a time and place, but going back and fourth for 60 messages is a waste of time. Better spent over coffee IN PERSON. Lets get to know who we REALLY are.
I care for deeper conversations and meaning with other humans. Not surface level bull. That can be learned over time.
It doesn't matter what you do for work. You could flip burgers, but if you are passionate about what you do, you have goals and have any aspirations to better yourself and the world around you, then let's talk!
I am not perfect, nor is anyone else. To look for someone who is, is a fools errand.
My pictures are a reflection of who I am in the most flattering angles. They are highlights of activities I like to do. I like to travel, rock climb, see giants games, hang out with friends, and shoot the shit. But We are more than our photos! We are people. We all share the same commonalities: wanting assurance, variety, significance, connection and love.
Let's stop promoting what people want you to be and BE YOURSELF. Be weird. Be unique. Be vulnerable. But most of all be enthusiastically genuine.
Life is too short not to be. We are all too fortunate to be self deprecating.
Please reflect on who you are as a person, what you want out of your life and relationships and verbalize them. It takes time, but I promise its worth the wait.
The Big Lebowski, Shawshank Redemption, Once Upon A Time in the West, American Psycho, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Wet Hot American Summer, Wander Lust, Forrest Gump, Dumb and Dumber, King Pin, Films by Tarantino or Wes Anderson, Emelie (shut up..its a great film).
Avalanches, Avett Bros, Andre Nickatina, Bag Raiders, Capital Cities, Chromeo, Cut Copy, Mylo, Miguel Migs, DMB, Ellie Goulding, Empire of the Sun, Frank Sinatra, Interpol, Isley Bros, John Denver, Kool & the Gang, Lakeside, Lamb of God, LCD SOUNDSYSTEM, Bob Dylan, Neil Young, Nina Simone, Outkast, Pantera, Porter Robinson, Buffalo Springfield, Cat Stevens, CCR, Deftones, DIO, Disturbed, the Doors, House, Reggae, Jazz, Metal, Blue Grass, Hip Hop: ie People under the stairs, Atmosphere, Lords of the Underground, Wu-Tang, Dre & Snoop, 2Pac, Biggie, Giant Panda, Souls of Michief. The good stuff...
Good food+ good music + good people = happy life
-why do they put Braille in art museums?
- Does whoever deny it, really supply it?