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My self-summary
I make fast friends. I believe in choosing love over fear. I've been told that I'm a goddess & also told I'm an expression of love & passion in the universe. I have a very big heart, full of joy, compassion, genorosity & kindness. I always let my light shine through any darkness. I'm originally from Honolulu Hawaii but have been living in Seattle since 2002. People are often shocked when I tell them my age & usually guess that I'm in my mid-twenties. Above everything I value someone with personality, who makes me laugh, who makes me feel like we have known each other forever & who isn't afraid of adventure. I walk over 10 miles a day for work & can ride my bike from Seattle to Portland 4 years in a row, yet still manage to be winded on any hike (though I love the view from the top). I like a Lillet on the rocks, sour beers, a bourbon neat or a Dark & Stormy. I consider myself an open-minded person, but my deal breakers are ill fitting over large pants & giant beards. Seriously. If you don't own a pair of Levi's 510's or 511's, you really should & clean shaven everything is just my preference, which is tough in Seattle because everyone has to rock a beard now just to be cool. :) I know way too much about FICO scores. ENFP. GGG.

“The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars.”

"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool – for love – for your dreams – for the adventure of being alive."
I’m really good at
loving people, making out, being a friend, making people laugh (+/or offending them), fashion choices, dressing people, undressing people & attracting the prettiest 20-something year old guys (a gift & a curse).
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told several times it is some weird magnetic je ne sais quoi, but i bet it is my laugh or voice since people tend to hear me from across the room before they even meet me! I also get many comments on my eyes, lips, smile & big booty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Used to be in a book group that mostly read wine labels + interesting fiction + in a heavy metal "book" group which involved no reading. I really enjoy the short stories of Raymond Carver + i'd go down on Cormac McCarthy, Carl Sagan, Charles Bukowski, Chuck Palahniuk, Kurt Vonnegut Jr, & Philip K Dick (pun intended)!

My musical tastes are diverse, but lean heavy. I stopped listening to hip hop for a time but I have a bunch of new hip hop on vinyl since the divorce because it just made me feel better than listening to joy division on repeat. jr ewing, black eyes, head wound city, retox, black breath, death grips, florence + the machine, lou reed, joy divison, new order, slowdive, iceage, tacocat, pony time, perfect pussy, the smiths, thee oh sees, botch, helms alee, purity ring, ...trail of dead, orchid, envy, akimbo, doomsday 1999, death from above 1979, femme fatale, majority rule, q + not u, pink + brown, lightning bolt, the make-up, nation of ulysses, xbxrx, queens of the stoneage, murder city devils, fugazi, blood brothers, unwound, arab on radar, swans, chinese stars, bloc party, big business, these arms are snakes, elliott smith, haunted horses, red fang, japandroids, the thermals, texas is the reason, the knife, pulp, smashing pumpkins, grimes, azealia banks, a$ap rocky, kendrick lamar, atmosphere, 2 chainz, drake, jay-z, kanye, big sean, weirdo, schoolboy q, the weeknd & the list could go on & on.

I pretty much love everything Wes Anderson, David Fincher, Darren Aronofsky, David Lynch, PT Anderson, Stanley Kubrick, Sam Raimi, Richard Kelly, Gregg Araki, Quentin Tarantino & John Waters have ever done & shitty horror movies. I gush about Vincent Gallo flicks because I'm a bit of a deviant. If you loved the movie Rubin & Ed starring Crispin Glover, we might be soul mates.

I LOVE NOVA! & Nova Science NOW! Oh & Carl Sagan's Cosmos! But if you asked me to pick my all time favorite show I would have a hard time choosing between X-files & RuPaul's Drag Race in all honestly. I also love Twin Peaks, The Mighty Boosh, Summer Heights High, Strangers With Candy & currently obsessed with Bob's Burgers, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt & Anthony Bourdain's Parts Unknown!

I'm a Bon Vivant who enjoys fine food & day drank.
The six things I could never do without
Friends/Family/Work Family/My dog Chibi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the cosmos, traveling the world, soft lips, hard bodies, song lyrics + living in the moment.
what to post next on instagram: callingindead
On a typical Friday night I am
truth be told, working. If not working probably at a show at The Black Lodge, Chop Suey, The Crocodile, Showbox, The Highline or Barboza or visiting with friends at Pony.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In 2012 my heart was crushed by my best friend with whom I thought I shared the most legendary love. recovering from kismet + casualty. it's a lifeless life with no fixed address to give, but you're not mine to die for anymore, so i must live. born of a bottle from heaven's hand, and now you know and here i am. when they love you and they will, tell them all they'll love in my shadow, and if they try to slow you down, tell them all to go to hell.

After the divorce I really enjoyed being single & spending time with my friends traveling, but like everyone I'm in love with the idea of being in love & asked the universe to bring me a tall, dark & handsome man who was passionate in bed. I chose to keep my heart open & the universe delivered. I spent the last 3 years trying to make it work with the most beautiful & most broken man I have ever met, but in the end it became too abusive & I had to do the hardest thing & turn my back on someone I love. And you had every chance, you destroyed everything that you know. Uncontrollable. If you don't need me, just let me go.

Choosing love over fear, returning all the love & energy I was giving to someone else back to myself & ready to take on the next adventure life has in store for me.
You should message me if
you've the mind of Carl Sagan or Bernie Sanders & the body of Justin Pearson or Justin Beiber.
you have Scandinavian or Lebanese blood in your veins.
you don't talk shit, you just state facts.
you're an amazing kisser.
you're a grown man with the near hairless a$$ of a 16 year old boy & don't mind me burying my face in it.
you're a tattoo artist or covered in tattoos.
you aren't offended by the comedy of chris lilley.
you have great taste in music, movies, art, food & beverages.
you hate being alone well you ain't the only one.
you hate the fact that you bought the dream and they sold you one.

you're ambitious & want to travel the world.
all you want for your birthday is a big booty ho.