I am not on A-List; so, if you "like" me, I can't see you or respond. Send me a message instead. Just say "Hi".
I am back on the site after a long hiatus.
Please be from Chicago. If you are not within 10 miles of Big John don't be upset if I don't respond.
I am single with no baggage. No kids, no family, no ex-wives calling, just a few ladies who are just friends, and Hannah the Wonder Cat. I work part time for the Chicago Symphony Orchestra and have a great sense of humor in a rather strange, offbeat way. I am not afraid to hand over the reins to a woman. I look for someone who knows what she wants, and is not afraid to ask for it. I am very intelligent and enjoy someone else who is as well. I have been in relationships in the recent past and was married twice. I have been divorced since 1992.
I believe that friendship is fine as far as it goes, and I have many "friends" who are female. I seek more, however. than friendship or a pleasant evening at the movie or CSO. At my age, time is an important consideration. I realize friendship comes first, but hope things will move along. Sex might be a topic of discussion after a goodly amount of time together.
I hope that I am one of the more interesting people you might meet. I have been to 43 countries, am both a Certified Chicago tour guide and scuba diver, lived on a sailboat, been a lobbyist in Wisconsin, got my Masters (History) 19 years ago from the University of Chicago, and have a 100 hour TESL certificate. I am in good health, and am active including sailing, camping, leisurely biking, scuba diving, and would enjoy someone to maybe do some of those things with. Watching Charlie Rose or Game of Thrones together would be nice too.
I am a pragmatic liberal Democrat. I spent 25 years in politics in various roles so I am a bit cynical, but, small flames of idealism are popping up in the ashes of my political past. I, somewhat reluctantly, voted for Hilary after getting over feeling the Bern. If you supported Donald Trump for President, we need to talk about that.
I am a culture vulture. I love movies, ethnic dining, cooking at home, the Met Opera in HD, MPark concerts. I usually see at least two or three movies a week. I am a Sox fan but could possibly accept a mixed relationship (a Cubs fan). Viewing sports is OK but not at the top of my to do list.
I am more into experiences than things. I am not rich, but I am not poor. I can carry my own weight financially and hope that you can as well. If you are looking for someone to support you, please look elsewhere. I plan to take more time now to smell the roses with my best friend. You?
There is one caveat. I will not live or date in the suburbs. I live two blocks from the Lake and the Red Line. I have a car but use public transit and am not crazy about trips out to the suburbs. Evanston is about as far afield as I am interested in going. I am a city mouse. I love Chicago, BUT, I should add that, if I find the right partner, relocation is possible anywhere except the 'burbs. Paris? Puerto Vallarta? Spending time anywhere warm in the winter is fine too.
Movies: Good ones, classics, I try to see all of the Oscar nominees before the nominations come out. If I haven't, I try to catch up before the Oscar ceremonies. I like the occasional piece of trash as well.
Shows: Small theaters, Looking Glass, Shakespeare on Navy Pier. I also like to get Rush tickets to the occasional Broadway in Chicago show.
Music: Classical. I love the MPark Concerts and go to Ravania when the CSO is there. I enjoy the Met in HD, and the Old Town School in Lincoln Square. I do have an open mind about most other kinds of music except rap.
Food: Almost anything. I have no food allergies, have eaten things I shouldn't have in lots of different parts of the world, and find lots of reasonably priced restaurants all over Chicago. I am not crazy about spinach and fishy fish. Love shellfish though.