35 Portland, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I've been me for about as long as I can remember. I think I've gotten pretty good at it. I love music, science, good food and good beer on warm sunny days.

I'm in a happy non-monogamous relationship with my best friend and partner dayglowflamingo. We've been together for 10 years. We enjoy meeting new friends and experiencing new connections with others.

While I'm always open to meeting like minded people, I am looking for someone with whom I can develop a genuine friendship with as well as being lovers. Someone who wants to go to live shows with me, or do a scavenger hunt, or go hot air ballooning, or do one of those escape rooms...have you heard of these those? They sound fun!
What I’m doing with my life
Working in energy efficiency, writing and performing music, floating down rivers, getting taster trays at brew pubs, watching movies/documentaries, riding my bicycle, playing with my two pups, two cats, two tortoises, loving on my partner, converting oxygen into carbon dioxide, etc.
I’m really good at
cooking, cleaning, fixing things, painting, singing, general shenanigans and tomfoolery. Becoming fascinated by new things and being unapologetically myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I exist as a physical being within their line of sight? If we're taking VERY first thing....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BBC space/science/nature shows. Anything with David Attenborough, Beian Cox, or Neil's DeGrasse Tyson in it. I also really like Futurama and Rick and Morty.

I have a pretty wide taste in music, like most people. Here what I've been listening to lately: Lord Huron, Glass Animals, Caveman, Pinback, Alex Winston, Tears for Fears, Stone Roses, the Cloud Cult, LOW, Jurrasic 5, Dan Deacon, man man. 'the octopus project' has been blowing my mind lately.

I also listen to a fair amount of podcasts. A few of my favorites being: Radiolab, probably science, professor blastoff, Harmontown, my brother my brother and me, and Risk!
The six things I could never do without
My partner.
My dogs.
A musical instrument.
Carrot juice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Space. The distance between us and the nearest rocky/watery planet. What the trillions of cells in my body are doing at this very moment without my having to tell them to do so. Why efficient solar energy is still beyond our grasp.

and.....where are my keys!?
On a typical Friday night I am
My Fridays are currently open for adventures with fun new people!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love vacuuming. Seriously. Dont tell my partner though, because I want to look like I'm being helpful and not gleefully pretending to push a hungry robot around the house.

...also, seriously, where are my keys!?
You should message me if
You want to have some sexy fun with a reasonably handsome individual.

You are another open couple seeking some rad new friends.

You have a recipe to share (no shellfish though! I'll die! Ahhh!)