I need to add to the men who are contacting me just wanting a "hook up" or for "friends with benefits." That's just not me, I need the romance, candles, soft music, holding hands, a true connection. If I can't find that, I'm fine on my own . I also like to be wined and dined and will do so in return if we hit it off. Would love to find a travel partner and want something real, not a player myself and not looking for one and will drop someone once I find out they are a player.