I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman who is not only okay with the fact that I'm bisexual, she thinks it's pretty hot, and is occasionally annoyed with me for not having found a boyfriend, yet. I haven't found a boyfriend yet because sex isn't the point, and too many of the guys who are looking for other guys (especially those whose OKCupid profiles identify them as "straight", alas) don't get that point.
In spite of starting this essay the way I did, those are just the labels, they're not me. They're useful mainly in the repulsion of people I'd probably find repulsive, anyway. My labels do not define me, any more than yours, however much you like them, define you. People are too complex for that. It would be as accurate to say the fact that I'm a fairly average amateur violinist defines me as a person as it would be to say the fact that I'm bisexual or poly defines me as a person; the difference is that the latter is offensive to some people, so they want to make more of it than I would, whereas the former only matters to the people I inflict my sadly lacking musical skills upon.
Also also, just as I have no interest in being someone else's
"dirty little secret". I have no interest in anyone else being mine. If PDA isn't your thing, then I'll respect that, but if you and I are out on a date, and things are going well enough that holding hands or kissing seem natural and appropriate, then I'll be comfortable with that, and I hope you will, too.
I am curious, yellow, and blue
Movies are all over the place, too, after the above ridiculousnessness, I'll refrain from starting another massive list of listyness.
Music -- everything from classical to heavy metal, with a bunch of Celtic traditional in between. I'm poly in my musical tastes, too. ;)
Food -- favorite is probably Thai, especially *good* Tom Kha Gai, Satay with spicy tamarind sauce instead of peanut sauce, and spicy basil. Also a fan of sushi, good Chinese (hard to find), etc. I mostly eat ethnic foods when I eat out, because I don't like to pay for something that I can do better at home.
(Either that or you were a Cupid match or listed in the "You might like" sidebar in spite of the fact that OKC's own algorithms give us a compatibility of less than 60% -- I've apparently flummoxed Cupid to the point where he's now just throwing shit against the wall to see what'll stick.)
. . .you're a bi guy, or a gay guy who's okay with dating a bi guy (emphasis on *dating*, as I'm not looking for the casual sex thing until I get to know you -- which is to say that, if you're not looking for serious right now but we click otherwise, I'm not opposed to "friends with benefits", but the *friends* part has to come first).