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My self-summary
what to say, what to say, as everyone says i hate these type of things and never have any idea what to put.....

I'm kind, loving and warm hearted or so I'm told! Looking out for the Kid/Youth I have and do interacted with is a big priority in my life, but I don't let that limit me. I'm light hearted and always look to have a giggle and yeah I usually do.

I love my music and films and most forms of artwork be it tattoo, musical or any form of "hard" or digital art be it frank miller or alan moores comic artwork. I currently have 4 tattoos but am planning for more. i love my films too and have far too many dvd's but yeah....

Im rambling now so the quickest and easiest way to sum me up is this; John, twenty-something, son, brother, friend, lover, sound-man, Gunner-til-I-die, cell group leader, tea drinker, disciple, movie buff, prayer-walker, bearded wonder, non-smoker, stressed, smily, childish, cautious, whatever... If you want to know any more just get in contact...

I am passionately loving, extraordinary, and sympathetic
What I’m doing with my life
to quote Douglas Adams - I refuse to answer that question on the grounds that I don't know the answer.

I guess the long and short of the answer is living it! seems that all I do is work to pay the bills but that makes me sound so boring.

erm..... I'm working at a supermarket doing management training as I needed a break from fulltime youthwork employment but I hope to one day return to that feild oneday.

I guess when I'm not working i spend vast amount of time with my housemates watching films and just being, other than that I go to the cinema and may take in the occasional gig, or round of golf - some times I even get to partake in a game of rugby or pool. We do like to make it to the Pub to have a good catchup and chat with my [[mates] tho.
I’m really good at
Using four letter words when I get excited (bonus points if you get the referance)

erm..... I really don't know how to answer this question, erm.... I keep getting harassed to sing/play bass more so I take it I'm good at that, being sarcastic as well I use it as a defence mechanisum or a mechanisum for anything really - its me being or trying to be charming and endearing(if I didn't like or respect you I'd just be blunt with the truth about it) I'm a good listener and advice giver well Dave said i was amounst other people.
The first things people usually notice about me
beard, ever changing hair, sarcasum maybe - I really haven't got a clue I'll have to ask around and get back to you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Favorite Authers included; Ed Brubaker; Joss Whedon; Mark Millar; Alan Moore; Douglas Adams; Mark Waid; Jim Krueger; Alex Ross; Bill Willingham; Frank Miller; Rob Bell; Paul Dini; Matt Fraction; Grant Morrison; Robert Kirkman; James Robinson; Bill Willingham;

Movies - 250 feature films on dvd and counting; Star Wars (the origanil 3 not the new ones overly); Pulp Fiction; Scarface; Reservoir Dogs; The Hustler; Color of Money; Whale Rider; Shawn of the Dead; Monty Python's: the holy Grail; Spaceballs; Godfather Trilogy; The Italian Job; Chasing Amy; Shrek; Shawshank Redemption; Labyrinth; Taxi Driver; Garden State; Dogma; Snakes on a Plane; The Good The Bad And The Ugly; P.S. I Love You; Juno; The Incredibles; Lion King; Aladdin; Superbad; Batman; Batman Returns; Batman Begins; Batman The Dark Knight; Dan In Real Life; From Dusk Till Dawn;

Music - I have an eclectic taste in music, how ever favorites include; Dashboard Confessional; U2; The Churchills; Counting Crows; Colin Hay; Lazlo Bane; Third Eye Blind; Jimi Hendrix; Tommy Henriksen; Eric Clapton; Joshua Radin; The 69 Eyes; Kate Rusby; Delirious; Andy Flannagan; Stereo Fuse; Beth Orton; Quench; Vicky Beeching; Three Doors Down; Kevin Bloody Wilson; Ryan Montbleau; 10000 Maniacs; Goo Goo Dolls; Natascha Sohl; Colbie Caillat; +44; The Hold Steady; Midlake; Jeff Buckley; Biffy Clyro; Sick Puppies; Fountains of Wayne: Barenaked Ladies; Violent Femmes; The 88; Augustana; The Golden Apple; The Fray; Matchbox Twenty; H2O; Reamonn

TV- Heroes; Scrubs; Neighbours; Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip; The West Wing; DangerMouse; Viva La Bam; Afro Samari; The Comedy Club; Top Gear; Match Of The Day; House MD; The Big Bang Theory; How I Met Your Mother; Mock The Week; Lab Rats; Cowboy Bebop; Nevermind The Buzzcocks; QI; Summer Heights High; Lead Ballon; Family Guy; Black Books; American Dad; One Tree Hill; Mock The Week; Dollhouse;

Food - Indian, Chinese, Italian, Lebanese, Bosnian to be honest I'll try most things.
Six things I could never do without
I like to think there is nothing that I need and have to have, but lets be honest I don't think thats true. If all the things like a house, food, air etc are coverd i guess;

Mobile phone (keeps me connected with everything, plus it has the internet built in :D)
Family/friends (lets be honest they're together because your friends are the family you choose when you live away from your real family)
Tea (need I say any more)
Entertainment (be it films, books, music, tv)
Pub (A place for randomness, a place to meet, a place to interact and see the world)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The less you know, the more you believe.

People, Life, the past the future. where to go and what to do next.

amoungst theose things my problems, my youthgroups problems, how I can help and listen and how true this statment rings - The major difference between a thing that might go wrong and a thing that cannot possibly go wrong is that when a thing that cannot possibly go wrong goes wrong it usually turns out to be impossible to get at or repair.
On a typical Friday night I am
In bed recovering from a long shift at work, watching a film, tv or reading. however it has been known for people to invade the house for a movie night/bbq/whatever and on the rare occasion I may have my arm twisted to go and play in the park or to the pub
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a tattoo saying caution this product contains nuts - well no i don't but I cant thing of anything to put in here, I'm open to answering any questions so yeah don't be shy.
You should message me if
you want to experience something New in your Life. I mean there is only one of me. loving, caring, funny, whitty, loveable and simple amazing.

just messege me if you fancy a chat or some random banter, so yeah do the right thing and messege john.
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