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My self-summary
Right... so...hmm...Welcome to my profile said the spider to the fly... Wait, that doesn't sound right. Then again, neither does this profile, not at the moment anyway. Let's fix that, shall we...

"Who am I?" is a deep psychological and philosophical question and I'm expected to answer, nay, summarize all of that in a little box? Not only that, they expect you to glean enough information to formulate an opinion as to who I am and whether or not you'd like to know me better all based on those things about myself that I've chosen to share in a public forum. Does anyone else find this process a little ridiculous?

I don't know about you, but I refuse to be put into a box.

I might be showing my age here (pfft, showing my age...who am I kidding? It's right at the top of the screen) but I'd like, if I may, to answer the question in the words of Edie Brickell and New Bohemians:

"What I am is what I am..."
(Now, for those of you reading this who were born after 1985, you may need to look the band/song up on YouTube. That's ok, I'll's worth the effort.)

I realize that I haven't given you very much to go on, but to me this is just a jumping off point. Call me old fashioned, but I still believe that you can't really start to get to know a person without first meeting them in person.

So I'll leave it here... I've done my bit. The ball is in your court, my friend
What I’m doing with my life
Like most of us, I'm doing my best to live it the best way I know how. Trying to maintain a happy balance between work and spending time with my family (both actual and extended/adopted) and doing the things I love, that feed and nurture my soul.

Not too long ago I went through something that changed me forever. As I travel along the path to regain some of the things I've lost as a result, I also find that I've acquired new insights and a new perspective on life. (Funny how life changing events will do that to you. Oh wait Life Changing....) While I continue to struggle with many things, I am a fighter and I can honestly say that I'm enjoying the ride.
I’m really good at
smiling and laughing
dancing like there's no one watching
giving massages

(Side Note: I'm a little surprised that people don't tend to mention their sexual prowess in this section. Is the subject just that taboo? Are we all just that modest or is there something more? Just an observation.)
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, I think. I tend to smile a lot.
My eyes (a friend's father once told me I had the eyes of a wolf, deep and piercing. He also told me I have a nice butt so there's that too)
And of course my breasts (what can I say...I'm blessed with a nice pair)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: To Kill a Mockingbird
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime
A Fine Balance
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay
Anything by Douglas Adams or Jasper Fforde

Movies: Anything staring Audrey Hepburn
Sweet Charity
Wag the Dog
Sean of the Dead
Hot Fuzz
Clockwork Orange
Rocky Horror Picture Show
Anything Monty Python

Theatre: Spring Awakening
Evil Dead the Musical
War Horse
the latest production of Metamorphosis
The Frank Diary of Anne
Love Virtually

Music: Right now I've got a real thing for the blues. I also love funk, jazz and classic rock.

I also love new and interesting independent artists like the Julian Taylor Band (,, The Bacchus Collective (, Ane Brun (, and The Lifts (
On a typical Friday night I am
No Friday's ever typical with me. Come to think of it, there's not much that's typical about the other nights of the week either. I like to live in the moment, wherever it may take me :)
The two of us