EcoTantric
33 Manhattan, United States
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My self-summary
UPDATE: Visiting NYC from London regularly 'til May 17

Oh the irony of being a life / dating & relationship coach on a dating site!

Well hello, I hear this is where the intelligent feisty women are...
I'm Jon... just another a cheeky, creative and uniquely insane non-conformist, looking for something electric and connected. Passionate about conscious living, the outdoors and heavily motivated by bacon, with not too shabby man skills.

I am confidence and vulnerability, growth and spontaneity, sensuality, roughness, control and surrender. Occasionally, I'm also a bit of a tool and if it's true you are what you eat, I'm a firm breasted extra virgin, colourful with well toasted nuts.

What about you...
+ You work hard, know what you want, aren't caught up in materialism and value being active more than drinking.
+ You give as good as you get, prefer 'meaningful' to small-talk and you balance traveling with your own inner journey.
+ You have passions, from quirky to non-vanilla and you're [ideally] looking for more than laughs, connection and hot sex.
+ You appreciate the importance of silliness and you're less than an 8 crazy... https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=lc3LUCu8-IU [grins

Currently researching age in relation to on/off-line dating in the UK/US, not least because I look young, it seems less important offline [I'm 39]. Feedback welcome.
For those who want more data http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-case-for-an-older-woman/
What I’m doing with my life
Putting unexpected items in the bagging area of life, questioning assumptions, orgasmic meditation, alternative relationships, gymming, googling, hippy/spiritual shit like yoga and growing veg, learning when a fuck shouldn't be given, making art, D/s.
I’m really good at
Find out! [bites lip]
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I listen to this often:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7aRNUsmfeck

Doug Stanhope 'comedian'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AofkBW4pfw4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XeF6xpvhC_g

Rainbow salads, chicken, fishcakes, pine nuts... I have a serious one bag-a-week habit which I developed whilst staying with monks in Tibet. Also somewhat of a houmousexual... I go through several pots a week.
The six things I could never do without
Bacon, or cheese, or cake... or cheesecake no bacon
Inappropriate humour and sarcasm
Naked fun
The unexpected
Crispy potato of some description
Bending the rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Pretentious wanky usernames
Gratitude
Applied psychology
The eroticism of kissing
Relationships as practise
Meditation and how to be more witty
Whether we'll ever evolve beyond 'the self'
A woodland loveshack with a jacuzzi
Words/language and whether fat men get lardons and junk food should contain contraceptives
Oh and gender equality...
http://www.aftmagazine.com/engage/debate-fcking-time-women-started-paying-dates/

http://bryanreeves.com/6-things-an-evolved-man-wants-from-a-woman
(Although I prefer 50/50 decision-making)
You should message me if
You have more to say than 'Hi' and you're looking to surpass the norm.

You smiled at the beginning, laughed in the middle and love a happy ending... and don't mind the odd awful joke, ok lots of awful jokes.

You're fun, open minded and sex-positive (s/switchy), and you think my charms and moments of awesomeness could outweigh when I'm a bit of a dick... and you'd like to do something random / silly / hot together, play crazy golf or try tantric kissing.
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