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My self-summary
i like stuff. lots and lots of stuff. oh, and things. i like things too.

quod me nutrit me destruit.

i am sassy, sinny and snarky.
What I’m doing with my life
something that others aren't.
I’m really good at
feeling emotionally and intellectually superior.
The first things people usually notice about me
1. my biting wit
2. my attention to grammar
3. my white skin
4. my red lips
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: the great gatsby; a good man is hard to find; wise blood; the interior castle; linden hills; the old and new testaments; wuthering heights; jesus saves; gun with occasional music; slaughterhouse five; the inferno; sexual personae; a confederacy of dunces; the lives of saints; a wrinkle in time; trash; get in the van; heart of darkness; the glass castle; down and dirty pictures; northanger abbey; any rough times are now behind you; easy riders, raging bulls; tender at the bone; the game: penetrating the secret society of pickup artists; in the devil's snare; the turn of the screw; little girl lost; to kill a mockingbird; the new merriam-webster pocket dictionary; the catechism of the catholic church and the poetry of frank o'hara

film: citizen kane; rebecca; hoop dreams; the night of the hunter; secretary; harold and maude; beauty is embarrassing; zombieland; the children's hour; ghost world; grizzly man; wild things; double indemnity; do the right thing; raise the red latern; warm bodies; the hurt locker; bound; jesus camp; henry fool; rope; drugstore cowboy; hanna; capturing the friedmans; the lady from shanghai; bladerunner; serenity; salo; waiting for guffman; hellboy; the squid and the whale; chinatown; 4 little girls; dawn of the dead (the REMAKE, not the original); once were warriors; you can count on me; american movie; raising arizona; josie and the pussycats; brick; gimme shelter; buffalo 66; crumb; the bling ring; elizabeth; near dark; bonnie and clyde; inside man; paradise lost: the child murders at robin hood hills; hard candy; ghost dog: the way of the samurai; amelie; when the levees broke: a requiem in four acts; it happened one night; summer of sam; the cove; some like it hot; the first half of grindhouse; the last ten minutes of from dusk 'til dawn.

television: my so-called life; buffy the vampire slayer; the first and last seasons of angel; firefly; the riches; veronica mars; supernatural; frontline; the vampire diaries; justified; pushing daisies; lost girl; mad men; being human (both the british and the american/canadian hybrid); ru-paul's drag race; austin city limits; sons of anarchy; rescue me; revenge; true blood; the walking dead; teen wolf; p.o.v.; new girl; defiance; hell on wheels.

music: the kind with notes. and breaks. b-i-g fan of the musical break.

food: nothing that comes from any of the "before" establishments on "kitchen nightmares" - or most food prepared by my late mother.
Six things I could never do without
1. my brilliant, bodacious and beautiful friends
2. reading material
3. laughter
4. leafy greens
5. my camera collection
6. adventures, both big and small
I spend a lot of time thinking about
not giving in to my basest instincts - and redemption.
On a typical Friday night I am
sinning. which makes sunday mass so much more complex yet enjoyable.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
why would i "admit" anything - here or elsewhere?
You should message me if
you like to have fun. i like fun as much as i like things. and stuff.


...while i'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, i have no desire to be the third, fourth or twentieth wheel in a poly/open/swing situation. please do not ignore this one caveat and believe that YOUR message will be the one that changes my already-made-up mind. i appreciate your life choice and i don't share a desire to participate. my academic work involves extensive analysis of non-traditional/non-pro-creative sexuality, so i'm familiar enough, well-educated enough and self-aware enough to know about the(se) lifestyle(s) and realize i can't be swayed, regardless of your assertions.

most other things, though, can likely be negotiated. so let's negotiate.
The two of us