I highly value my friends and rely on them a lot for personal and intellectual stimulation. I'm looking for people who can hold intellectual conversations but who don't take themselves too seriously. I like having the option to delve into Conversations (ya know, not just conversations), but more often than not, I just shoot the shit. Fun and silliness are just as important as thoughtfulness.
I enjoy smiling, cuddling, and laughing and try to surround myself with people who make those activities possible. Compassionate love isn't something that should only be reserved for our nearest family and closest intimates; it's really something I wish were more a part of standard social deference, something one human being should have for all those around him/her...unless they're that jerk from the grocery store who always takes two parking spaces IN THE FRONT because his car's too nice. Really? If it's nice enough to take up two spaces, it's certainly too nice for your American flag and McCain Palin 2008 bumper stickers. Jackass.
Oh, also, the OKC name is not a commentary on body. It's the Russian name for a hairstyle I sometimes sport, CHOOB-chik.
I am inquisitive, nurturing, and enthusiastic
arguing...no, no, wait - debating!...yeah, that's it.
sprucing up boxed mac'n'cheese
finding lost things (keys, remotes, grooves)
movies: but i'm a cheerleader, the life of david gale, cirque du soleil, children of men, the royal tennenbaums
music: all kinds, but some favorites include velvet underground, nina simone, miriam makeba, france gale, simon and garfunkel, kaiser's orchestra, woody guthrie, LCD soundsystem, mercedes sosa, juan luis guierra, amiina, erik satie, edgar meyer, die ärtze, DDT, deti picasso, joe venuti and stuff smith
sexuality (and sex...let's be honest here)
how my government can justify legislated discrimination in the 21st century.
whether or not gay rights are more important than queer revolution.