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My self-summary
If you're looking for a conventional woman, you're visiting the wrong page. I live my life filled with passion, adventure, honesty, unattached generosity, humility, integrity and conviction. I’m not afraid to speak my mind, share my thoughts and ideas (and actually act on them), am unfazed by challenges, and genuinely believe in the power of kindness.

I have the mind, wisdom, and emotional maturity of a person 20 years my senior but the heart of a five year old. I have strong, capable hands that allow me to lift, fix, and handle the many things that come my way. I'm on the feminine tomboy end of the spectrum but consider my soul to be quite androgynous.

Disclaimer: I am in a loving relationship with an amazing, beautiful woman who lives in NYC. We are secure and very happy in our relationship, and will maybe consider an open relationship somewhere down the line. In the meantime, looking for awesome, fun queer friends to hang out with on the east and west coast... or where ever I might be traveling for pleasure or business!
What I’m doing with my life
Thinking ahead but taking life day by day. It's a marathon... I'm an entrepreneur always looking to make positive social impacts
I’m really good at
maintaining balance but letting loose when need be
making friends with strangers
being kind but not a pushover
being direct but tactful
The first things people usually notice about me
... that I’m non-judgmental and kind of dorky
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
my interests are all over the place so you'll have to ask me over a cup of coffee...

but i will say that I don't care what your interests are so long as you are open to experiencing/learning new things and see beauty in more ways than one
Six things I could never do without
the arts
good food and wine/whiskey/tequila
undying curiosity and passion
stimulating conversation + good laughs
staying physically active
dreams and inspiration
breaking rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to better myself and the world around me, women's empowerment, life as a canvas, sex and sexuality, gender/hetero normativity, how to make more time for reading, cooking, and sleep, the intersection of class, race, and gender, relating life to a simpson's episode, privilege, what i can do today to step out of my comfort zone, women, my next project/adventure, how to shut off my brain...
You should message me if
I'm attracted to progressive politics, confidence, mindfulness, goofiness, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence. I'm most drawn to people who don’t take themselves too seriously but buckle down when appropriate, are open-minded, inquisitive, laid back, curious, sex + body positive, cultured (in communities of color and privilege), and have thoughts, projects, dreams, and passions they want to share.

Bonus if you think we can get along, and you want to jam on musical instruments (though I'm just starting to ease my way back into the world of playing), go dancing, go for a chill bike ride, volunteer, watch a musical/dance/art performance, go on random adventures, or introduce me to something new + interesting.
The two of us