claydo20
25Odessa, United States
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My self-summary
I lived in Odessa for 3 years. Played in a great band. Had the time of my life. I moved to Nebraska. Wasn't there long before I decided to listen to my heart. I now live in Odessa again. And it feels good to be back. I get more exciting from here so I hope you're still sticking around!

I'm a big guy, have a soft beard, I have the scream and yell of a viking, but I'm really just a soft and gentle teddy bear. I love all animals and I'm a very family oriented man. I love kids so I ask you do as well. Music calms my soul and is my drug of choice forever and always.

With that being said, I'm a HUGE music nerd. It's my biggest passion and it literally saved my life when I was living in Odessa the first time around (if you're curious about what I mean, feel free to ask I'm comfortable talking about it now). As you might have seen from my pics, I was a vocalist for a metal band for a while. So yes I'm a singer/screamer...but that's not all! I also play bass guitar, piano/keyboard, trumpet, french horn, a small dash of drums, and I'm slowly working on getting some acoustic down. But bass guitar will always be my weapon of choice. Also, my music taste varies from metal and rock all the way to jazz and classical. I may be a metalhead, but I will listen to just about anything! One more thing I should add. You can think being in a band is a hobby all you want but I consider it as a part time job for the time being. I want to make a full time career out of it some day. So please, show your respect and don't think of me as immature and childish because of a dream I want to make as a reality.

Something off topic-ish. I do now have a band that I am dedicated to. So I ask you support my band in all of our endeavours. I am a salesman and businessman. Working 2 different sales jobs along with being an entrepreneur and fronting a band keeps me super busy so I don't have a whole lot of time. However, if we start talking and you show interest, I will most definitely make time. But prove to me you are worth my time. Because I don't have a lot of it in a day and I do not like to waste it.

Aside from the music, I'm a gamer. I'm a nerd. I play anything from gears of war and CoD to playin some Pokémon on my 3ds (also, how great is Pokémon GO, am I right???). I love to play Magic the gathering, even though I'm not good at it, and I play several table top games when I get the chance to. Usually Dungeons and Dragons or Pathfinder. The typical ones. Judge me all you want. I'll always be a child. I'll always be a nerd. I like what I like.

Adding on to the nerdiness, I also watch cartoons and anime. Is that all I watch? Hell no. But I do watch a bit of it. Mostly just the cartoons of when I was growing up as a kid. Ed, Edd, n Eddy, Courage the Cowardly Dog, Johnny Bravo, etc. You get the idea. Anime varies. I won't embarrass myself listing that.

If you've made it this far without backing out and still have an interest in me, good job! You're awesome!

Though I'm a musician and a nerd, I do know how to be serious when I need to be. I'm a decent salesman, but I'm a great musician. With that being said, I want to make a career of playing music for people all around the world. And for my music to mean something to the people listening to it. You can call it a silly child's dream all you want, but I'm determined to make it happen. And it WILL happen. Music is all I ever wanna do in life.

My preference for women are curvy, bigger women. But I won't judge. I like to see the soul and personality of a woman. That's what you really are attracted to. The looks are just a small bonus to it all.
I've been tossed around so many times, getting my emotions toyed with constantly. I always end up being the one hurting. But, I wear my heart on my sleeve. I fall fast. And I'm a big lover. So I can't help it. It's who I am and who I've always been.

One last thing to add. I love to cook and I love to cuddle. So if you're lookin for a man who can cook for you and will always be down to cuddle with you, you've found him!

Now...if you made it this far, congratulations! You're a badass who has good taste! Wanna know more about me? Just send me a message! I almost always reply to anyone!
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, playing my bass, making myself a better vocalist, fronting my bands, playin games, workin, being the best musician that I can be, and being the best entrepreneur I can be
I’m really good at
Music is just about the only thing I'm good at. So we will go with that
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really don't read that much. Never have. Not one of my biggest hobbies.

I love any and all horror. From the 1960s and up to the most recent ones! I think that George Romero is the king of zombies and Alfred Hitchcock is the godfather of horror movies. And Vincent price was such an amazing actor back in the day. Nowadays, it's Bruce Campbell. He's a frickin badass.

When it comes to TV shows, I'm such a big geeky nerd and child. I love all those old cartoons that were on cartoon network...like Ed, Edd, n Eddy, courage the cowardly dog, teen titans, justice league, Thundercats, he-man, etc....also, huge fan of Dragon Ball Z and Pokemon. Full Metal Alchemist, Black Butler, Trinity Blood, FLCL, and I could just go on and on and on....

Oh man don't even get me started in music...to sum it up in a decent section, I listen to just about anything. Jazz, pop, rock, metal, southern rock, Christian rock/metal, classical, classic rock/metal, OLDSCHOOL country like Johnny cash and John Denver...yeah I like just about all of it.

Favorite food, hands down, Asian food. But I'm a big man so I'll eat just about anything.
Six things I could never do without
My dogs
Music
Family
Friends
My bass guitar
My bands
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When I'll finally meet the woman who will take me for who I am and not try to change me. That includes supporting me and my dreams and not try to change my mind on the matter. When I'll finally get that big break to become a touring musician and go all over the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, video games, music, cookin, having a few drinks...my weekends are pretty simple. I'm not about that party scene
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Clowns. I'm terrified of clowns. Always have been.
You should message me if
If you like my type of music or if you'll be super supportive of my music and what I do with it. If you won't make me change just so your future will be all as planned. I like to live day by day. I'm not gonna plan for the future yet. Just do stuff to help me prepare for it. If you're actually a genuine girl who won't fuck me over like all the others have. You won't lead me on and make me fall for you and then leave. It's bullshit. I've had it happen way too many times and I don't want it to happen again. I don't play games. I'm ready to settle down...not get married and plan out life, but settle down and get a place, have someone to come home to every night. That's what I want
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