Clearestblue
34 San Marcos, United States
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My self-summary
I just moved to the San Diego area (01/29) and I'm happy to be here and looking to make new friends!

If you give me a like, please drop me a message so I can follow-up!

I have cerebral palsy, also known as the sexiest of the palsies, and I'm not ashamed by it. I'm a proud person with disability who rocks independence to the best of my ability.

I'm a student of life. I love learning and experiencing new things. There is no limit to the things I'm willing to do except my imagination. I enjoy a good conversation. I'm on a journey to find out what I have to offer the world.

My arch-enemy is gravity and she is always plotting against me. I love to cruise where I can and see things that I'm missing.

I'm not afraid to speak my mind when I have to and I tend not to have a filter between my brain and my mouth. I am not easily offended which surprises some people.

I would like to runaway to Wonderland, but without the acid.

I am loyal, honest, sensitive, funny, witty with overtones of curiosity, and enthusiasm.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work for an agency that helps people with disabilities reach their employment goals. I'm very passionate about my job!

I would like to get back to doing Kajukenbo, a mixed martial art, and teach other disabled people how to defend themselves and exceed their limits.

Fitness is important to me and I'm hoping that whoever I find on here can appreciate that.

I plan on brewing my own beer.

I'm learning how to throw knives. No cuts so far!
I’m really good at
I'm an active listener who is always up for a conversation. I love just hanging out and talking. I am an open minded person who believes that without honest and clear communication, no relationship is worth having.

I always have good parking.
I'm really good at putting spaces between paragraphs.
I make very obtuse references and I'm really good at it.
Singing to myself.
Memorizing things except how to get somewhere, so no Flight of the Navigator for me
Reading upside down.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have blue eyes and a great smile and a right hand that seems to be possessed thanks to my disability.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Fight Club, Lord of the Rings, Iliad, Odyssey, Sophocles, Caesar, Frank Millar before he went crazy, Neil Gaiman.

Movies: Donnie Darko, Never Ending Story, Aliens, Transformers Tron, American Psycho, Akira, Pi, and a lot of others.

Music: Various Movie Soundtracks, Alice in Chains, Aphex Twin, Atari Teenage Riot, Bat for Lashes, Bjork, Black Sabbath, The Cardigans, Chris Vrenna, Crystal Method, Cure, Daft Punk, Danger Doom, Dead Can Dance, Death in Vegas, Delerium, Depeche Mode, Dj Krush, Dj Shadow, Doors, Fiona Apple, Fluke, Front Line Assembly, Funker Vogt, Garbage, Genitorturers, Girl Talk, Gnarls Barkley, Goldfrapp, Gorillaz, Guns n' Roses, Jimi Hendrix, Junkie XL, Juno Reactor, Kanye West, Keny Arkana, KMFDM, Lacuna Coil, Lamb of God, Led Zeppelin, Lords of Acid, MIA, Madvillain, Marilyn Manson, Massive Attack, MC Chris, Meshuggah, Metallica, MF DOOM, Ministry, NIN, Nirvana, Otep, Pantera, A Perfect Circle, Portishead, Prodigy, Radiohead, Rage Against the Machine, Rob Dougan, Slayer, Smashing Pumpkins, STP, Sublime, Thievery Corporation, Tool, UNKLE, Velvet Acid Christ, Violent Femmes.
The six things I could never do without
My friends
Sushi
Music
Dancing in my room
Love
Meeting cool people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about disabilities. I would like to understand the positive and negative connotations attached to the idea of disability. I believe that the human body is beautiful in all of its forms.

I would love to get involved with foster kids and maybe mentor one. I think that these kids are all too often forgotten about and they slip through the cracks.

I listen to a lot of music. However, I haven't spent a lot of time with the radio lately so I'm always surprised by new music. Some of it gets in my brain and won't go away (Lady Gaga I'm talking about you).

Good food that I miss. I love In and Out.

Also meat loaf and liver and onions. Apparently I think about meat. Juicy Meat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Binging on Netflix after some time at the gym.

I would love to spend time with someone who shares my passion for gaming. Board-games, RPGS, and video games. I am not able to play all the games I would like to, so if you wouldn't mind an audience while you play, that'd be fantastic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you like me, I will not get it. You will have to hit me with a brick of attraction.
You should message me if
If you want to talk about anything or get a beer somewhere.
If you feel like making the first move.
If you want to give me your best anti-joke.
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