I'm fortunate enough to have a lot of friends in MAD/NYC/HK and try to fully explore the cities I visit. A lot of fun to be had regardless of what you're looking for.
But beyond the typical physical attractive attributes, Ive been told rather consistently that my listening skills and subsequent advice are "unparalleled". No promises, but I've heard it often :)
Poetry - specifically Robert Service, Edward Paramore, Alfred Noyes and Robert Frost.
Music - All over the map, but some of my favorite stuff is very old blues (Robert Johnson, Peetie Wheatstraw, Sonnyboy Williamson, Otis Spann). Then some more mainstream artists - Daft Punk, MGMT, GNR, The Black Keys.
Family and Friends
my work in Asia and NYC
the sustainability of international economic growth.
the possibility of rigging a side trip to see my family with my latest work travel.
You care about people
You're "confidence" isn't a thinly veiled mask for your insecurity.
You're on the level.