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My self-summary
I am a thinker, a dancer, a friend, an engineer, cat café proprietor, an immigrant, a son, an atheist, a jew, a feminist, a reader, a cook, a student, often an iconoclast, sometimes shy, seldom sentimental.

Those are all labels, and maybe they mean the same to me as they do to you, but they probably don't.

I read a lot, love playing with ideas, seek out excellent art, and surround myself with incredible people I feel fortunate to have in this life.
What I’m doing with my life
I write software for a living, and for love. I know talking about work is a faux pas, and I should instead just mention it in passing and move on to talking about my diverse and impressive hobbies. But I really, truly, love what I do. My work brings me joy, fulfillment and a sense of purpose, and I consider it my main creative outlet.

I love the theater, go on TED talk binges, and am usually learning new skills.

I've spent the last year focusing on my health and fitness, learning guitar, dancing blues, re-discovering poetry, exploring festivals, and trying (mostly unsuccessfully) to make a habit of meditation.
I’m really good at
I'm often complimented on my dancing, cooking, and massages
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So so many. But here are some favorites:

Diamond Age
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Deepness in the Sky
Kurt Vonnegut
Baroque Cycle
Diskworld Series
American Gods
Alan Watts
Six things I could never do without
I have a few close friends, and consider them family. I love them dearly and make them a prioritry.

Everything else is window dressing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophy, economics, sociology, my place in the world, my relationships, dinner.

Lately, I've been thinking a lot about emergence, entropy, and computation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes I go to parties, but lately I've been feeling more low-key. Cooking dinner with a friend, drinking wine and reading poetry, seeing a play or watching a movie.
You should message me if
If you're witty, appreciate and exercise critical thinking, take responsibility for who you are, and are looking for someone to share this crazy beautiful life.

Bonus points if you open with a "that's what she said" line.
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