35Athens, United States
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My self-summary
I still have a lot to learn about myself, and my experience with relationships is somewhat limited. Sometimes I'm not even sure if I am the relationship "type". But most of the time, I really long for companionship (I'm speaking both about sexual longing and deep friendship)... both of which are lacking at the moment.

I don't seek a materialistic life. I don't have a lot of things nor do I have a lot money. And I don't really care to have much more than what I have right now. Though I am a collector of rare plants and my cat was expensive... :-/

I'm on okcupid because I want someone to hang out with (but not just anyone... I want to truly click with someone). I want someone to shake up my life and inspire me.
What I’m doing with my life
Pianist and horticulturist.
I’m really good at
-adapting to people and new environments (i've moved around quite a bit)

-seeing the good in the not so good

-being self critical

-being patient

-isolating myself

-obsessing over things and people. :-/

-loving cats :-)

-improvising on the piano

-eating healthy (i'm a bit obsessed with nutrition)


-keeping a clean car

-being completely open about what is going on in my head

-liking dogs (though I've made some exceptions :0

-pop culture (music, TV, etc...)

-small talk and socializing in general (though I am improving)

-telling people NO

-witty conversations and puns



-more to come as I think of them
The first things people usually notice about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Stephen Sondheim and Bernard Herrmann. but i mostly listen to Classical Music some favorites include: Wagner, Herbert Howells, Brahms, Arnold Bax, Aaron Copland

i love good food. indian and middle eastern foods are exceptionally tasty.

movies: Bridesmaids, Rosemary's Baby, Angels in America, Monster, Mysterious Skin, most stanley kubrick movies, Magnolia, Happiness... to name a few... i love going to the movies. oh, and recently, i've been introduced to the wonderful work of David Lynch

tv: PBS, southpark, Modern Family, Tales from the Crypt... I love scary movies.
Six things I could never do without
someone who genuinely thinks i am funny
a piano
hot water
a space for gardening
someone to have stimulating conversation with (which is very much absent right now :(
access to Whole Foods
rare plants
people to help/ visit (this is a foundational component of my happiness, for it is something i feel compelled to do
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my next meal, existential crap.
On a typical Friday night I am
A restaurant, at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Perhaps I shouldn't fill this out.
You should message me if
you are interested...
The two of us