coastermonger
28Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
Non-monogamous, atheist, humanist, I like the company of passionate people who know what they want and know how to get it. I don't view people in terms of what they can give me; you're already awesome, just do you.

Being financially independent and secure is very important to me. I'm a hedonist at heart who likes to have fun. If I had any spiritual beliefs, generosity towards friends would probably be a central practice. I appreciate anyone who has an open, inquisitive, or compassionate mind.

Relationship status: there are two people in my life, one close and one far. I'm partnered with aflashinhereye, we live in a cute little place in San Leandro. I have a long distance relationship with another lovely girlfriend who I met when we all lived in Texas. We all tend to date pretty independently of one another.

Love languages:
1. Quality time <-- most important
2. Physical touch
3. Words of affirmation
4. Acts of service
5. Receiving gifts <-- least important
What I’m doing with my life
I spent 6 years pursuing a pharmacy degree before realizing at the precipice that the field was full of desperately unhappy people. I flipped the table, got into my own interests, and now I'm a fraud analyst for a financial institution. I stop bad people from stealing untold sums of money with your personal info. I also know more about medicine and the body than the average bear.

I've moved back to the states after spending 2 years on a tiny island in the Caribbean. Hopefully I can make San Francisco a long term home. Priorities include, in no particular order:

1.) F̶i̶n̶d̶ ̶a̶ ̶g̶o̶o̶d̶ ̶r̶o̶c̶k̶ ̶c̶l̶i̶m̶b̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶g̶y̶m̶
2.) B̶e̶c̶o̶m̶e̶ ̶a̶ ̶m̶e̶m̶b̶e̶r̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶a̶ ̶l̶o̶c̶a̶l̶ ̶b̶o̶a̶r̶d̶ ̶g̶a̶m̶e̶ ̶s̶t̶o̶r̶e̶
2.5) Design and publish my own board game
3.) Get my pilot's license (finally!)
4.) Get that tattoo I've always been thinking about?
5.) Find cool people to hang out with
6.) Live in a big house with lots of fun roomies
7.) F̶i̶g̶u̶r̶e̶ ̶o̶u̶t̶ ̶w̶h̶o̶ ̶I̶'̶m̶ ̶s̶u̶p̶p̶o̶s̶e̶d̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶v̶o̶t̶e̶ ̶f̶o̶r̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶t̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶c̶r̶a̶z̶y̶ ̶p̶r̶e̶s̶i̶d̶e̶n̶t̶i̶a̶l̶ ̶e̶l̶e̶c̶t̶i̶o̶n̶
I’m really good at
Being a social hub that connects people from disparate groups.

Planning and pulling off actual adventures. The kind where you load up an RV with 6 friends and spend the weekend camping out and going deep cave exploring.

Unabashedly nerdy, I build gaming PC's and collect board games for fun (last count was 60+). Bars are fine, but I'd rather have friends over for a house party or LAN party.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Just because she likes the same bizarre crap you do doesn't mean she's your soul mate."
Six things I could never do without
Up, down, top, bottom, charm, strange
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to describe color to a blind person, how to describe music to the profoundly deaf, how deaf people think without using an inner voice. How to describe an orgasm to someone of the opposite sex... how to eradicate mosquitoes from the face of the earth (it's past the point of asking if we should)
On a typical Friday night I am
Off on an adventure, often a spontaneous one
You should message me if
Motivation force - Apathy > 0
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