Being financially independent and secure is very important to me. I'm a hedonist at heart who likes to have fun. If I had any spiritual beliefs, generosity towards friends would probably be a central practice. I appreciate anyone who has an open, inquisitive, or compassionate mind.
Relationship status: there are two people in my life, one close and one far. I'm partnered with aflashinhereye, we live in a cute little place in San Leandro. I have a long distance relationship with another lovely girlfriend who I met when we all lived in Texas. We all tend to date pretty independently of one another.
1. Quality time <-- most important
2. Physical touch
3. Words of affirmation
4. Acts of service
5. Receiving gifts <-- least important
I've moved back to the states after spending 2 years on a tiny island in the Caribbean. Hopefully I can make San Francisco a long term home. Priorities include, in no particular order:
1.) F̶i̶n̶d̶ ̶a̶ ̶g̶o̶o̶d̶ ̶r̶o̶c̶k̶ ̶c̶l̶i̶m̶b̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶g̶y̶m̶
2.) B̶e̶c̶o̶m̶e̶ ̶a̶ ̶m̶e̶m̶b̶e̶r̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶a̶ ̶l̶o̶c̶a̶l̶ ̶b̶o̶a̶r̶d̶ ̶g̶a̶m̶e̶ ̶s̶t̶o̶r̶e̶
2.5) Design and publish my own board game
3.) Get my pilot's license (finally!)
4.) Get that tattoo I've always been thinking about?
5.) Find cool people to hang out with
6.) Live in a big house with lots of fun roomies
7.) F̶i̶g̶u̶r̶e̶ ̶o̶u̶t̶ ̶w̶h̶o̶ ̶I̶'̶m̶ ̶s̶u̶p̶p̶o̶s̶e̶d̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶v̶o̶t̶e̶ ̶f̶o̶r̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶t̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶c̶r̶a̶z̶y̶ ̶p̶r̶e̶s̶i̶d̶e̶n̶t̶i̶a̶l̶ ̶e̶l̶e̶c̶t̶i̶o̶n̶
Planning and pulling off actual adventures. The kind where you load up an RV with 6 friends and spend the weekend camping out and going deep cave exploring.
Unabashedly nerdy, I build gaming PC's and collect board games for fun (last count was 60+). Bars are fine, but I'd rather have friends over for a house party or LAN party.