colojerobronx
49 Amherst, United States
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My self-summary
(If the lack of photos on my profile is a deal breaker, I understand. I am
happy to share photos to those who ask. The reality of my current life situation doesn't allow me to be "out" about my poly lifestyle.)

I'm married, my wife and I have been together for over 20 years, she's my best friend and as I see it, my life partner. I can't imagine anything that would change that! I seek to meet courageous open minded poly-ish, bi-ish women to become a part of our small circle of friends with the possibility of evolving into a relationship that is fun, intimate and fulfilling for everyone involved.

It's is not our first (non traditional) relationship. We had a great relationship with a wonderful woman who moved away. She was lovely, and caring and really set the bar high for how fulfilling these types of relationships could be. We're still in contact with her, but we miss her dearly.
What I’m doing with my life
Working full time, raising a family. Trying to smell the roses as life speeds by.
I’m really good at
Cooking, fixing things, looking for solutions to problems, and understanding that sometimes you can't fix everything, even if you prepare a fabulous meal, and you just have to listen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I project a lot of confidence. People often think I'm taller or bigger than I actually am.
The six things I could never do without
Wife
Kids
Intimacy
Tranquility
Travel
Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to be honest with myself and the people around me. Trying to ask for 100% of what I want, understanding that I probably won't get that and negotiating for the rest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for people watching opportunities with my wife and a special friend.
You should message me if
1.) If you've gotten this far.

2.) You understand that I'm actually looking for a relationship and not just a sex act.

3.) If forming a bond of friendship and intimacy with a fun, adventurous, monogamish couple sounds like something that you'd like to explore.

4.) You have any questions that you'd like me/ us to answer.

5.) If you drive a hybrid, please contact me!

6.) If you are ok with people who enjoy and after work cocktail or two....or three! Lol!
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