confidentstill
34 Tulsa, United States
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My self-summary
So im moving back to Tulsa to be closer to my family. Currently i work two service industry jobs.

I am looking for something real, and i dont like long distance relationship or feeling like i am in a long distance relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
I bartend, and serve. I work alot. But have time for the right person.
I’m really good at
Let's see. I have always been a decent cook, but because of my various history as a server I can be creative in the kitchen and still put together some pretty good flavors, so I am growing as a cook.. I don't cook often though cause i don't thoroughly enjoy cooking for just myself.

I am pretty good at bowling (i have bowled a 298), pool, and kickball, cards, and mario kart.
The first things people usually notice about me
My shaved head, smile and my loud laugh. It is almost uncontrollable at times. Or my fidoras. I have 6 and wear them often. And I always try to smell amazing too... females tend to collect purses and shoes. I collect fidoras, and cologne.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- I am a big fan of Harry Potter, I also enjoy the Inheritance series, Lord of the Rings, and the like. I am also have a heavy belief that understanding the book "The 5 Love Languages" will enhance any relationship, whether it be family, friends, or a significant other.

Movies- I own way too many and of almost any genre. If I have a list of genres I can write out my favorite to each. Each has a very specific emotion attached really depends on my mood.

Music- Pretty much top 40, and country music, any thing i can understand the words too.

Food- SUSHI. I also love hibachi grills. and i love Mexican. and my favorite fast food is actually Taco bell or Qdoba. Italian is always a good possibility as well. Again I also love to cook in the kitchen, just about anything, but I prefer to cook for someone else.
The six things I could never do without
Ok obviously air, food, shelter, and water don't count...
In no particular order.
Family/friends... my life line. This group is small, and becoming a part of it is rare, but I am open to the possibility.
Sushi... best food ever- I could eat every day the rest of my life and not get bored with it. Thank goodness I work at a sushi restaurant.
Cards... easy fun... simple, they can cut boredom when there is nothing else.
Cell phone... connection, it is the technology age unfortunately.
Car... to get around, it is the commuter age unfortunately, and we live in oklahoma without a strong public transportation system. And i have lived in vegas for 4 months without a car, and all i ever thought was the 18 miles to and from work would take me 25 min in my car instead of 2 hours.
The last one will be reserved for my life love
On a typical Friday night I am
Working... It is the best night to work. If not maybe watching a new movie at a local theater.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a harry potter geek, clash of clans, and other nerdy things, also a wine geek... And munchkin and cards
You should message me if
If you like 20 questions.(my questions are listed in the journal section)... its fun and creative,
Do not take life too seriously...

*Side note please don't message me if...
1. Your message is "Hey what's up?" or anything similar. I realize that I should be a gentleman and message you first, but I don't message everyone, only ones I think I would match well with, but it doesn't mean that didn't think about messaging you first. (At the very least tell me why you wanted to message me.)
2. You live more than an hour away from me.
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