28 Madison, United States
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My self-summary
i will not
What I’m doing with my life
Working at a few vegetable farms. Following a circuitous path to in hopes of growing food in community. Keeping conversation lively, or being a complete hermit. Telling it how it is. Overthinking for the better and the worst. Foraging in field, forest and probably your curb. Questioning it all. Reading for answers. Singing and dancing for joy.
I’m really good at
Growing large quantities of produce. Comfort with discomfort. Self reflection. Lollygagging or precision, depending. Croquet. Cutting hair while drunk. Spacial organization. Finding magical pictures in wooden boards.Opening impossible jars. Singing the feels. Structureless poems. Ruining library books with wine. Hitting snooze. Considering and reconsidering every decision Ive ever made. Being adorable while not taking your shit.
The first things people usually notice about me
smiling seriously
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most recently: Big Hard Sex Criminals, Saga.
Ursula Le Guin, Milan Kundera, and Virginia Woolf are favorite authors. bell hooks forever. Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close. The God of Small Things. 1000 acres. The Late Homecomer. Their Eyes Were Watching God. Tortilla Flat. Another Night In Suck City. Pussy King of the Pirates. A Tale for the Time Being. Wild Fermentation. Pippi Longstocking. Between the World and Me. The New Jim Crow. All About Love.

Broad City, Parks and Rec, Louie

Willy Wonka. Harold and Maude. Triplets of Belleville. Planete Fantastique. The Dark Crystal. The Bicycle Thief. Wings of Desire. The Kid. Hertzog. Anything Miyazaki, esp. Castle in the Sky.

Fela Kuti. Billie Holiday, Amy Winehouse, Sylvan Esso, Phillip Glass, Patsy Cline, Memphis Minnie, Nina Simone, Heartless Bastards, Savages, Portishead, Kronos Quartet, Spires that In the Sunset Rise, Bjork, John Legend, Elvis Costello, D'Angelo, Moby, TuNeYaRdS, Georgia Anne Muldrow, Stevie Wonder, Dolly Parton, Beyonce, James Blake, Hiatus Kaiyote, MIA, etc.

Sandwiches are the most supreme food, and genuinely bring me much happiness. Homemade ferments. Cookies at any time. All of the vegetables. I have a penchant for getting hangry, and am finally learning to stuff my bag full of snacks.
The six things I could never do without
Wool sweaters
Soil beneath my fingernails
A tune to carry
Heartfelt hugs
Creative outlet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Dreaming of bicycling through Europe living off of wine bread and cheese. Figuring out next directions. How late I am. How do I do and be more in this short life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical. Or A typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm still feeling really quite burned by an old love. Polyamory has left me jaded. Im open to trying some form of it out again, or not. I like options. And I like mutually respecting feelings and navigating with respect and honesty. This heart is a tender beast.
You should message me if
If you are absolutely not conservative, have an old soul, or identify as a feminist.
Or if you're name is Clyde and you are also interested in robbing banks, metaphorically.