36 South Bend, United States
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My self-summary
Hard working man looking for my perfect match. Why does dating have to be so difficult? Ive been there and done that, ready for the next chapter!

I am crazy, sexy, and cool.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an HVAC installer and plumber, love my job its what I like to do!
I’m really good at
Fixing just about anything,
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, am told I have great eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Don't read much

I like comedies and action movies

As far as food, I eat well, I maybe the best cook you've ever met. My grandmother was the best and she made me learn when I was young and with that and what I learned from the gourmet chef in the bahamas I cook everything well
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whats next
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxin from the work week or going to sleep early to wake up early saturday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I like to write about life, here are a few of my thought let me know what you think, id really like to know any ones feelings on any of my writings.

Thoughts of a sad soul
Current mood: sad
Category: Romance and Relationships

Is it better to have to have loved and lost or to have never loved at all? This is a question for the ages. What is the definition of love? I dont believe there is a definition. I believe that it is a feeling of the heart and not of the mind. Love is a feeling that encompasses your body which you can feel throughout your soul. I also dont believe it has anything to do with your mind because there is no logic to love, nor should it be something you even have to think about. Back to the question at hand. To lose something you love is probably one of the hardest things in life to deal with, from my experiences anyway. It effects your whole life, every aspect, every feeling, and every decision. It definitely takes some time some time to get over, more so when you cant understand the reason for the lose. If you've never had that feeling of lose, than in my opinion you've never truly loved. To have never loved is probably the saddest thing I have ever heard, and to tell you the truth, to go though life and not love is unrealistic. If you have never loved than you cant feel the lose of having loved and lost. As I sit and think about this question, I realize that its not a good question at all, and that there really is no good answer either way. To love comes real easy for me, to lose on the other hand, is almost unbearable, and to have never loved at all, impossible. As I think about whats next I am scared, excited, mad, and happy all at the same time. I guess the easiest thing to do is not love, but that's just sad. So love like there is no tomorrow and try to learn to lose.


Why cant we see things coming
Current mood: confused

As we get older and wiser you would think you'd be able to see things coming. Hard to believe anything should come as a surprise. So is life to throw things your way that at the moment you cant or wont believe. How often we get caught up in the moment and don't realize what or why. These lessons I myself hope are intended for a greater purpose. To tell you the truth I am sick of learning things the hard way. As many things as I have learned the hard way you would think I would already know but i guess I am not as smart as I should be, or is this the way its intended to be......


Timing IS everything

What could be....
What cant be...
For reasons that arnt controllable
Life throws life at you for a reason
These reasons you have to believe are for a reason
Life is always a lesson
How you deal with these lessons changes who you become
Living life and thinking there are no repercussions, or thinking that matters of the heart, wont get in the way is ridiculous
But knowing things are just what they are is sometimes difficult to deal with
Even if you've known what cant be at this moment in time
But always BELIEVE what could be.........

You should message me if
Your looking for someone to settle down with