36 Tempe, United States
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My self-summary
Software developer. Technically inclined. Mildly part-time gamer and general nerd. Occasional podcaster, electronic music amateur and repressed creative.

I just relocated from Illinois and this is my first time moving out of state. So I'm also also looking to meet new people here, I bet.
What I’m doing with my life
I put a lot of effort into building my career, but I feel like I've neglected other areas. I'm trying to improve myself in those and tip the scales a bit more towards life.

2016 has gotten off to a rough start for me, and I'm fighting hard to make it better.
I’m really good at
I've always had a natural talent for anything computer-related or technical. I also have a knack for being a sarcastic weirdo, which isn't exactly as desirable I think. But I have a dark sense of humor, which I don't let out around most people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm very quiet when I don't know people. I don't necessarily "warm up" - generally if I am comfortable with someone, it happens quickly.

If someone says "I'll bring you out of your shell!", I know they won't.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 1984, Breakfast of Champions, House of Leaves

Movies: Koyaanisqatsi, 2001, Billy Madison, Super Troopers

Music: Radiohead, Imogen Heap, CHVRCHES, Chromatics, and I still have a soft spot for grunge. I've got really varied tastes that are hard to sum up. Electronic. 80s revival.

Food: Struggling with this, especially this year as I'm trying to avoid as much as possible. Have a pizza/italian/Mexican weakness.
The six things I could never do without
Friends - I'm a bit of a loner, but I still have to keep in touch with people. ...Okay, I'm a huge loner. But I need people more than I like to admit.

Technology - as silly as it is, my computer is an extension of myself, and how I communicate with the outside word. If it's down, I get down.

CPAP - I have severe sleep apnea, and having a way to treat it changed my life in a huge way.

Writing - Sometimes I just have to get something out, whether anyone will ever read it.

A car and nowhere to go - when nothing else works, an aimless drive does me wonders.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I don't know that I spend a lot of time thinking about any one thing, besides the future and where I'm headed. And sure, probably too much about the past.
On a typical Friday night I am
messing around at home, talking to some friends online and listening to music to decompress from the week. I'd like to start getting out more, but I don't like going out by myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm still uncomfortable with all of this, and just wish finding people to talk to here was easier.
You should message me if
you're looking for somebody to connect with, and it seems like we would.