46 Tulsa, United States
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My self-summary
Self-confident and warm. Home and hearth. Empathy and reason.Intellectual and outdoorsy. Modern design, entertaining,friends, red wine, and cosmopolitanism.
What I’m doing with my life
Excelling at what I do while knowing that at the end of the day it might mean little or perhaps even nothing
I’m really good at
Resisting authority
Being who I am instead of being what is expected of me
The first things people usually notice about me
Intensity, confidence, ease, warmth, intelligence, fitness....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Guns, Germs & Steel
Astronaut Wives
Behind the Beautiful Forevers
Blood, Bones & Butter
The Price of Inequality
Seeing Like a State
Calvin & Hobbes
The Wisdom of the Crowds
The Tipping Point

American Beauty
Mommy Dearest
The Glass Menagerie
Color Purple
Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind
Spirited Away
Howl's Moving Castle
Monsoon Wedding

Breaking Bad
Madam Secretary
House of Cards
Parks & Recreation
Six Feet Under
Mad Men
Downton Abbey
Nurse Jackie
Modern Family
The Chef's Table
House of Lies
The six things I could never do without
Simplicity in the sense of it being the highest form of complexity
Loyal friends
Ideas and the written word
Aesthetics, art, industrial design
Farmers markets
I spend a lot of time thinking about to give life meaning when it doesn't really have any...?
On a typical Friday night I am
Thinking, reading, writing, drinking wine...making dinners for small groups of friends, conversing, watching documentaries, historical dramas, cinema.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I trust too easily
That I care for "higher innocence"
That I find physical beauty a form of genius even when I ought not to treat it as much
That I am sometimes seduced by an imagined reality rather than the reality itself...
That I am capable of great mistakes and screwing up bad
You should message me if
If you have a good sense of who you are
If you know what you want
If you are a man of ideas
If you care about your body and soul
If you care about what you think but not take yourself too seriously
If you have a sense of wonder about the cosmos, its unfathomable scale, its complexity