I am a former small town guy, that still opens doors and pulls out chairs for girls and my elders. I enjoy anywhere that I can listen to live music. I have been several places in the US and around the globe. I lived in Japan for awhile in College.
My life is busy, but I want to find a girl that I can spend time with and get to know. I have been in a long relationship that ended recently. I am divorced with no kids. No baggage here, just want to be fair. Getting to know someone is something that I value. Spending time with someone is the easiest way to find out if you like them. Whether in person, or online, either way is fine. I tend to think text is cold and impossible to read intent most of the time.
I am always up to cook, dance, drink, laugh, enjoy the moment, and go out. My ideal night is spent with good friends, food, and fun conversations unwinding. Maybe a live concert. You could say that I like all sorts of music, but I enjoy Country, Rock, House, and even some Raggae and Jazz. I know I'm all over the map, but country suits me best.
I am pretty easy going if there is something that you want to know just ask. I value honesty, sense of humor, and communication. So if you don't think similiarly, then we probably may not be hand and glove.
I like a girl that isn't afraid of sarcasm, or being a bit aggressive sometimes. I may be a bit blunt or too upfront for some people. I talk a lot too, professional hazard. For that I do apologize, but it's me. I'm learning after years of hearing that wasn't okay, that it is okay to be me.
I am in no need to microwave my relationships friendship or otherwise. If meeting someone is not something you are okay with or want to do, I'm okay with that. I would just hope that you are able to get over the agoraphobia at some point and leave your phone or PC behind. Me nothing can substitute an in person meeting.
I like to unplug from the hum-drum day to day life put on some music and relax. If you are okay with high-may sometimes and low-may others in a balanced way, you're my kind of girl. Boots and jeans maybe a sundress are preferred over red sole high heels and an evening dress. Although I'm a fan of a balance of both. If you are that kind of girl, we will get along.
I like doing things that aren't always on the beaten path. New adventures are awesome! I live for spontenatity. Something that is completely off the grid is fine with me anyday!
Shows: Rookies, common law even if it was cancelled, burn notice, the firm, suits, Chicago fire, girls, newsroom, house of lies, the mindy project, lostgirl, warehouse 13, Grimm, Nikita, arrow, supernatural, leverage, breakout kings also cancelled pity, southland, last resort, the following, banshee and some others I have failed to mention...
Books:happiness advantage, failing forward, getting naked, the oath, why we hate the oil companies.
Those are a few, but a lot more that I couldn't think of right now.
Music: kaskade, skrillex, glitch mob, David Guetta, to halestorm, staind, FFDP, the ting tings, to George Jones, Gary Allen, red dirt country, Texas country. I'm all over the map. I like and respect jazz to trip hop and punk to r&b. Recently I have been into edm, it goes well with running! I will go to live show any day name the music will travel!
*Love of a good Woman
*My own bed (if you travel a lot you know)
*Eating Spicy Food all types
*Lounging poolside or a patio
How many times running a week is productive?
Where to go for my next vacation?
If listening to Top 40 is damaging to my IQ?
Is it wrong that I prefer two step to dub step most of the time?
Silly stuff like where I left my keys and or wallet, and what city did I wake up in?
What kind of music is best live?
Finding someone who understands the difference between like and love.
If you like Tall Southern gentlemen, that still open doors, care about their family, and like to dance.
Who doesn't mind a dork sometimes, but is sincere. Let me know.
I have a soft spot for dark hair and eyes, along with having tattoos, or none at all, an affinity for adventure and life, and like to watch movies that don't always have happy endings.
Lastly, is not complicated or possessive, had one don't want another.