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My self-summary
I decided to update this again, life's different since the last time this was updated. I'm a divorcee not a leper, going on a two years. Now that it's over and I want a fresh start and to have fun. A little about me:

I am a former small town guy, that still opens doors and pulls out chairs for girls and my elders. I enjoy anywhere that I can listen to live music. I have been several places in the US and around the globe. I lived in Japan for awhile in College.

My life is busy, but I want to find a girl that I can spend time with and get to know. I have been in a long relationship that ended recently. I am divorced with no kids. No baggage here, just want to be fair. Getting to know someone is something that I value. Spending time with someone is the easiest way to find out if you like them. Whether in person, or online, either way is fine. I tend to think text is cold and impossible to read intent most of the time.

I am always up to cook, dance, drink, laugh, enjoy the moment, and go out. My ideal night is spent with good friends, food, and fun conversations unwinding. Maybe a live concert. You could say that I like all sorts of music, but I enjoy Country, Rock, House, and even some Raggae and Jazz. I know I'm all over the map, but country suits me best.

I am pretty easy going if there is something that you want to know just ask. I value honesty, sense of humor, and communication. So if you don't think similiarly, then we probably may not be hand and glove.

I like a girl that isn't afraid of sarcasm, or being a bit aggressive sometimes. I may be a bit blunt or too upfront for some people. I talk a lot too, professional hazard. For that I do apologize, but it's me. I'm learning after years of hearing that wasn't okay, that it is okay to be me.

I am in no need to microwave my relationships friendship or otherwise. If meeting someone is not something you are okay with or want to do, I'm okay with that. I would just hope that you are able to get over the agoraphobia at some point and leave your phone or PC behind. Me nothing can substitute an in person meeting.

I like to unplug from the hum-drum day to day life put on some music and relax. If you are okay with high-may sometimes and low-may others in a balanced way, you're my kind of girl. Boots and jeans maybe a sundress are preferred over red sole high heels and an evening dress. Although I'm a fan of a balance of both. If you are that kind of girl, we will get along.
What I’m doing with my life
Searching for meaning and finding enjoyment. As well I wonder if there is girl who reads these? So I would love to find the balance of work and time with someone. Hopefully that understands the complexity of my life.

I like doing things that aren't always on the beaten path. New adventures are awesome! I live for spontenatity. Something that is completely off the grid is fine with me anyday!
I’m really good at
Listening, Talking to strangers, Quoting songs and movies, Drinking Rum, Vodka Tonics with lime, People Watching, dancing like no ones watching, Cooking, and watching "B" class 80's movies and Losing at darts with friends!
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes they are grey, sense of humor, and my voice. It's a couple of things but they are what people say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: fight club, hunt for the red October, the rock, love and other drugs, north by northwest, maltice falcon, Algiers, point break, thank you for smoking, crank, kill bill, ferris buellers day off, anchorman, dirty dozen short list, navy seals, varsity blues, 500 days of summer.

Shows: Rookies, common law even if it was cancelled, burn notice, the firm, suits, Chicago fire, girls, newsroom, house of lies, the mindy project, lostgirl, warehouse 13, Grimm, Nikita, arrow, supernatural, leverage, breakout kings also cancelled pity, southland, last resort, the following, banshee and some others I have failed to mention...

Books:happiness advantage, failing forward, getting naked, the oath, why we hate the oil companies.

Those are a few, but a lot more that I couldn't think of right now.

Music: kaskade, skrillex, glitch mob, David Guetta, to halestorm, staind, FFDP, the ting tings, to George Jones, Gary Allen, red dirt country, Texas country. I'm all over the map. I like and respect jazz to trip hop and punk to r&b. Recently I have been into edm, it goes well with running! I will go to live show any day name the music will travel!
Six things I could never do without
*Having a genuine belly laugh
*Love of a good Woman
*My own bed (if you travel a lot you know)
*Eating Spicy Food all types
*Lounging poolside or a patio
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is the best BBQ in Dallas?

How many times running a week is productive?

Where to go for my next vacation?

If listening to Top 40 is damaging to my IQ?

Is it wrong that I prefer two step to dub step most of the time?

Silly stuff like where I left my keys and or wallet, and what city did I wake up in?

What kind of music is best live?

Finding someone who understands the difference between like and love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking out on the Grill, enjoying time with friends, and doing something new. Usually losing at darts, but winning at that wrong? Mostly just enjoying the company of people who are good for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been involved in a love triangle between vodka and tonic, don't tell mom it'll be our secret okay.
You should message me if
You are an individual that has your own mind, life, goals, drive and is looking for someone that cares about you, and also learning all those things about you.

If you like Tall Southern gentlemen, that still open doors, care about their family, and like to dance.

Who doesn't mind a dork sometimes, but is sincere. Let me know.

I have a soft spot for dark hair and eyes, along with having tattoos, or none at all, an affinity for adventure and life, and like to watch movies that don't always have happy endings.

Lastly, is not complicated or possessive, had one don't want another.
The two of us