45 Asheville, United States
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My self-summary
I enjoy being outside hiking, mtn biking, trailrunning, or just working in the yard. I hope to find a lady that enjoys the same. I like to travel but prefer to travel to non tourist spots. That still leaves a lot that needs to be said to summarize who I am. I am logical, caring, outgoing, semi-stubborn, chivalrous, protector ...I would prefer you discover my other attributes. I am part good boy/bad boy. I don't play mind games and I don't cheat.

I grew up in Colorado but fell in love with NC due to being in the military. My time in the military sculpted me into the person I am today. I am not the same person as when I left but I continue to change in very positive ways.

I am here on OKC to find a woman that is down to earth, somewhat organized in her life, not big on materialistic items. I hope she is independent yet still needs me now and again as I will need her.

Im not looking for a fast hook up. If that part happens it will happen down the road, additionally, I am not vanilla in the sex dept. Not into guys and not into couples or polygamy. I don't judge but I do have my own preferences.
What I’m doing with my life
I am enjoying the wonderful area we live in by either hiking or running or mtn biking. I like to take on projects that force me out of my comfort zone. I feel like we are all students of life and learning as well as teaching is the key to a well rounded enjoyable life.
I’m really good at
Solving problems and finding more problems to solve. I am not to shabby at being a handyman either. I am also a loyal steadfast friend, to those that have earned my trust.
The first things people usually notice about me
Been told I am very charismatic, witty, outgoing and fun. And working on not being so damn intense.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Love technical manuals. It has been a long time since I grabbed a book that didn't teach me something.

Movies - recently watching Netflix for pure entertainment. My classics include the Big Lebowski, Tropic Thunder, Last of the Mohicans. So many more I enjoy just trying to keep it simple.

Food - Omnivore so I love all types of food. Always been into spicy food. I hope that you enjoy cilantro, onions, tomatoes, and jalapenos, or habeneros. They are the basis of what I cook and eat. I tend to look at meat as a delicacy because a life was taken no matter how small. Not that I don't eat meat but I try my best to show my appreciation to the animals that give their life and am not a glutton. I grew up in an area where our animals provided for us and if they could not we hunted and that was out of necessity, so I respect all life. I do not hunt now and only will if it ever becomes necessary.

Music - Pandora allows me so much freedom. If I must have one station to listen to would be my current selection of The Brothers comatose, however my taste varies drastically.
The six things I could never do without
What I would miss the most.
My Sister
Good Wool Socks
Comfy slippers
Super soft down pillow and sleeping bag
Oskar Blues
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How fortunate I am to be of whole body and mind. I know just how lucky I am to be on this earth and I am still trying to to make the most of it.

I hope to find a woman I can have a family with as well as being my partner, best friend, and the love of my life. I want us to be able to compliment each other not be a carbon copy. I want a partner in crime, where we always have each other's back.
On a typical Friday night I am
I work weekend nights now. Not sure how long I will be doing this but for now it is a necessary evil.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I thought I saw Bigfoot the other day, but why would he/she be on a tricycle?
You should message me if
you are interested in conversation, maybe chill over a nice cold beer, glass of wine, or even nice cup of Joe. Looking for friends first and foremost then build on that. I reiterate the fact that I want to take things slow let them build if they are going to and if not then I end up with a better network of friends.