34 Upland, United States
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My self-summary
Someone once told me that there are three phases to your dating life. In the first phase, one looks for passion, someone to have fun with. In the second phase, one looks for a relationship, someone to build a life with, raise a family with. In the third phase, one looks for friendship, someone to spend the rest of their life with.

At this stage in my life I am pretty much in the second phase of my dating life but would still like to find a woman that is passionate and someone that can also be my friend. At this point in my life I do not have time for the games that many 20-year-olds play. I left that part of my life in my 20's and have made a transition to a more serious part of my life as I have come to a better understanding of where I want to go with my life.

While it may seem that I have settled down and have become instantly boring, the truth of the matter is that I am far from that point. While I want to find a woman I can have a relationship with, I still want passion too. I still want to go on mini adventures on the weekends. I enjoy going to Vegas and would like to travel to Catalina. I’m game for anything that is fun and adventurous, whether going camping or going on long hikes, or even something as simple as watching a movie at home or going to a comedy club. I love to make people laugh, am somewhat of a goofball, and enjoy spending time with friends.

I am looking to find a woman that shares most, if not all, of my core values. I am attracted to a woman that cherishes modesty and is more demure. I also like a woman that is serious about planning for her future and actively trying to achieve the goals she has set for her life. If you think you might be this woman give me a shout and lets see where it goes . . .
What I’m doing with my life
I work long hours during the week and am focused on my career, which is interesting and offers many opportunities.
I’m really good at
Talking . . . I also have a good memory and love to listen to the opinions of others on various subjects.
The first things people usually notice about me
I can be kind of a dork but I'm very nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Books: That is a tough one. I read a lot of different books from self-help books, to romance, to books that help me develop new skills.

Favorite Movies: Shawshank Redemption, Smokey and the Bandit, Big Trouble In Little China, Land of the Dead, Mob Movies, good horror movies, and anything with Steven Seagal.

Favorite Shows: South Park, Family Guy, American Dad, Archer, Beavis and Butthead, Sons of Anarchy, Mash, Justified, and Supernatural (I tend to watch shows in cycles depending on what I feel like watching at the time).

Favorite Music: Love classic rock, 80's and 90's, techno, and trance.

Favorite Food: Burgers and Pizza. Love Buffets! Overall, I'm not a picky eater and have tried many different foods from several nationalities (Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Greek, Italian).
The six things I could never do without
1. Movies
2. Music
3. Books/My Kindle
4. Sleep
5. My Laptop
6. My Car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The direction I would like my life to go in and the possible ways I can get there. I like to think about new ways I can improve on the person I am today. Finally, I like to think how I can become the person I would like to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out on the town with my friends or trying to find something fun to do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to ask . . .
You should message me if
Even though I’m at a more serious point in my life I’m not completely ready to settle down. I’m looking for that special someone I can share my experiences with and maybe create some new ones. I hope that person will be honest, genuine, and have an idea what she wants out of life. If you think we might be looking for the same thing give me a wink and lets talk . . .