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My self-summary
Time for a change. As an independent woman who spent my life trying to prove I don't need a man, divorced for 28 years and committed single for around 16, I am ready to rethink my perceptions and choices.

Believe or not all I actually wanted was a family and did have two beautiful children, but I had no ambition toward material success. Now that I am completely on my own I am ready to utalise my gifts to make a more comfortable life for myself.

I always rejected the idea of successful men because I thought somehow you had to sell out to do well financially. I am still growing and learning. I am not looking for a sugar daddy; my integrity is still fully intact, I would however like to get to know the type of people I ignorantly judged and maybe even find a mentor... a lover would be icing on the cake but you have to make the cake before you can ice it.

I am not looking to change who I am, I like and respect myself, but I do want to open my mind, learn, and make different choices more geared to a happy life rather than trying to save the world (still want to make a difference but right now I want to actually put myself in the priorities category.)

I am a giving loving person inherently, i.e. I have a lot to offer. I live to have fun, laugh, try new things, be adventurous, etc, even walks on the beach, lol.

Anyway, I would like to meet new people and hopefully not only have a good time but learn different perspectives. Maybe that was all too honest but I don't like wasting time with bs.
What I’m doing with my life
Changing direction.
I’m really good at
Whatever I set my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
friendliness or boobs. I'm not really sure
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Crime and Punishment, The Idiot, (anything Dostoyevsky wrote) Gone With the Wind, 1776, 1491, East of Eden, The Road Less Traveled, A New Earth...

Movies: Butch Cassidy and The Sundance Kid, Jeremiah Johnson, Three Days of the Condor, Elizabeth, Young Frankenstein, The Holly Grail, ANY Jason Bourne, Man on Fire, Dead Man, Troy, The King's Speech

Music: Stevie Ray, Beatles, Neil Young, Pink Floyd, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Johnnie Lee Hooker, REM, Screaming Trees, Mazzy Star, Dead, Fleetwood Mac, Eagles, ozzy(Blues, rock, classical, jazz, soul -Anything, as long as it is quality)

Shows: Big Bang Theory, Daily Show, Colbert, Bio, History, Top Chef, Third Rock

Food: Northern Italian, Japanese, Mexican, Italian, French - and hoping to try some new
Six things I could never do without
Good food & wine
intellectual stimulation
My dog and other critters
dancing (it's been too long)
Giants Football - somehow this season I have survived without it, just barely. :_(
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The universe/meaning of life.
How I can make a difference in the world.
What to have for lunch.
On a typical Friday night I am
Open to the possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I signed up for OK Cupid
You should message me if
You are intelligent, have integrity. a sense of humor, a desire for travel, but more than that - but we can get to that later.

Please DO NOT if you are under 5'10" (sorry, I like a guy taller than I am), looking for a notch on your cougar belt, or Can't think of anything more to say, than "Hi, how are you."
The two of us