Believe or not all I actually wanted was a family and did have two beautiful children, but I had no ambition toward material success. Now that I am completely on my own I am ready to utalise my gifts to make a more comfortable life for myself.
I always rejected the idea of successful men because I thought somehow you had to sell out to do well financially. I am still growing and learning. I am not looking for a sugar daddy; my integrity is still fully intact, I would however like to get to know the type of people I ignorantly judged and maybe even find a mentor... a lover would be icing on the cake but you have to make the cake before you can ice it.
I am not looking to change who I am, I like and respect myself, but I do want to open my mind, learn, and make different choices more geared to a happy life rather than trying to save the world (still want to make a difference but right now I want to actually put myself in the priorities category.)
I am a giving loving person inherently, i.e. I have a lot to offer. I live to have fun, laugh, try new things, be adventurous, etc, even walks on the beach, lol.
Anyway, I would like to meet new people and hopefully not only have a good time but learn different perspectives. Maybe that was all too honest but I don't like wasting time with bs.
Movies: Butch Cassidy and The Sundance Kid, Jeremiah Johnson, Three Days of the Condor, Elizabeth, Young Frankenstein, The Holly Grail, ANY Jason Bourne, Man on Fire, Dead Man, Troy, The King's Speech
Music: Stevie Ray, Beatles, Neil Young, Pink Floyd, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Johnnie Lee Hooker, REM, Screaming Trees, Mazzy Star, Dead, Fleetwood Mac, Eagles, ozzy(Blues, rock, classical, jazz, soul -Anything, as long as it is quality)
Shows: Big Bang Theory, Daily Show, Colbert, Bio, History, Top Chef, Third Rock
Food: Northern Italian, Japanese, Mexican, Italian, French - and hoping to try some new
Good food & wine
My dog and other critters
dancing (it's been too long)
Giants Football - somehow this season I have survived without it, just barely. :_(
How I can make a difference in the world.
What to have for lunch.
Please DO NOT if you are under 5'10" (sorry, I like a guy taller than I am), looking for a notch on your cougar belt, or Can't think of anything more to say, than "Hi, how are you."