My ideal partner is equally in love with his life, challenges me because he's constantly challenging himself, is creative, has some kind of spiritual practice, adventurous, funny, probably somewhat nerdy/quirky. I'm interested in someone who is smart, strives for life balance, compassionate, adventurous, funny, and finds it easy to have a good time no matter what environment they are in.
I value maturity, authenticity/honesty, mutual respect, and clear communication in relationships.
I'm running my own business (film/video production) and am passionate about what I do. I make documentaries, experimental films, and music videos. The 9-5 lifestyle is not for me (and never has been). I've always been on the entrepreneur path and love it.
I am both a student of Buddhist meditation and a teacher. I'm primarily interested in exploring the inner landscape through meditation- but, I have explored other healing modalities such as EFT.
doing what I say I will
caring about the underdog
Baraka, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Wasteland, Kids, La Haine, Trainspotting, Wristcutters: A Love Story, Slumdog Millionaire, Shortcut to Nirvana, Rivers and Tides, The Cruise, SLC Punk, Tarnation, Unmistaken Child, Dogtown and Z Boys, Amelie, Up, Grizzly Man, Baraka, Everyday Sunshine, Man on Wire, Burma VJ, Born into Brothels, anything by the Coen brothers, Gus Van Sant, Larry Clark, David Lynch (almost anything), Werner Herzog, Michel Gondry, Spike Jonze, and Darren Aronofsky
Buddhist books like anything by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso (Eight Steps to Happiness, Universal Compassion), Pema Chodron, Jack Kornfield, and lately Deepak Chopra. I read mostly non-fiction- though some fiction interests me.
I'm vegetarian so Indian, Thai, and Mexican are my favorite cuisines.
I recently discovered Yerba Mate and am so hooked.
Striving for greatness
I dislike wearing socks to bed (no matter how cold the weather)
I dislike standing close to the edge of a Bart/Muni platform. I am cursed by formerly living in NYC and hearing those horror stories of people being pushed onto the tracks by some psycho. What weird about this is that in just about every other aspect of my life I enjoy "living on the edge". :-)
I tend to be attracted to guys who either have (or want to get) tattoos. While I have none right now, I plan to get some in the future. And, no, I'm not referring to a butterfly or a rose.
I dislike mustaches (and most facial hair in general). Yeah, I know that excludes me from being a hipster and I'm totally cool with that.
You made it to the end of this profile (and read all of it)
You love chai tea as much as I do. .
You have fire in your belly.
You want to teach me how to surf.
You like a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket ;)
You are looking for a LTR
Umm, you feel like online dating is a bit too much pressure. You like live music and want to make a new friend...let's go.
p.s. Please don't msg me with a one-liner like, "how is your week going?" or "you have a nice smile".