Creative, spiritual, silly, successful
entrepreneurial yet very feminine.
Snuggly. Large collection of onesies
ok...Serious stuff first
I'm here to meet men who don't want kids
Or those who have thought about it, and know they could be happy without.
If you have read this... please let me know in your first message to me by starting your email with CHILDFREE :) I will promise a reply. I get tired of having the same old conversation
I like having the freedom to travel and make art, and contribute in other ways to society. I want to live large and I have the time and means to do so...(hopefully you do too?)
I still want partnership...a ridiculous love...and a life with someone.
Ok, with that disclaimer aside
on to the less serious stuff!
I love fellow makers, creators, travelers, people who are curious about the world. I'd love to date someone who also is creative in some way. Please be exceptional somehow...I'm looking for the works.
I know, I'm long winded (just look at the length of this profile!) I am an odd mix of sweet, loving, kind...and dominant. Outspoken. Strong. Kinky. Best suited for a man who is a little bit submissive with the woman he loves
Im equally comfortable at an art opening ( I work at an amazing art gallery) as I am playing Playstation in my pajamas or camping in the woods. (I love video games for their artistic merits, honestly) Very silly at times...I love to laugh. 10+ years in BDSM but your parents will never know ;)
I run a few small businesses. I love people. Though I might love animals more.
Travel is important to me. Not just to exotic destinations, but all places in between. Small towns, run down places too. The idea of a year long road trip across the US in a RV sounds like heaven to me. Wanna travel together? I have a pretty sweet vintage campervan....
I live on the edge of Emeryville/Oakland....and am in San Francisco often enough. I don't mind the thought of dating someone outside the Bay, especially if it means spending more time on a farm :) I can imagine myself moving somewhere more rural someday...especially if I can garden.
I'm pretty witchy. Into Tarot, shamanism, meditation. I'm very committed to a practice of personal growth: Ayahuasca is an amazing experience, and has become an important part of my life. That said, I'm also down to earth and can hang with just about anyone, logical, business-types and atheists included.
I'd love to find someone exceptional in some way. Talented, funny, successful...someone who lights me up. A best friend who I can't keep my hands off ;) true partnership, friendship on fire. None of this A.D.D Bay Area dating BS. Loyalty is a strong suit of mine.
That said, I do take things slow, and believe in being friends before anything else. Connection takes time and anything worthwhile is worth waiting for. Ultimately, I'd love a partner to go deep with ♡♡♡ You know, co-habitation: The final frontier. Someone to share a home with, a big shop space for creating and a round table to gather friends around for Sunday brunch. I want a creative life full of projects and travel with my partner
This last paragraph is meant to scare you off. If it hasn't, awesome :) xo
P.S My pics are all recent, I'm actually 38 though I don't feel it. My best friend is 23, I'm told I pass for 27...but yes...time flies! Good genes here. If that bothers you, ah well. I believe age is pretty irrelevant
I run a few businesses and enjoy a lot of freedom.
Most dear to my heart is..helping run an art gallery here in Oakland. We show video, installation and visionary work.
I paint, and sculpt
I've studied at several fancy art schools, exhibited in galleries, and have been lucky enough to actually sell most of my artwork. Fun, right? I balance all my artsy-stuff with good, business sense. no starving here.
And also, Ayahuasca ceremonies as needed
The Power of Attraction. Finite and Infinite Games
TV: Reno 911, adult cartoons, The Office, Little Britain
music: I love outdoor music festivals and will gladly get on a plane to go to a good one. Priorities. Priorities.
To name a few: MUTEK (montreal) DEMF (detroit electronic music festival) treasure island music fest, and yes, burning man (though i am not a "burner" by any means)
more music: gang gang dance, SBTRKT, fleet foxes, the beatles, beruit, matmos, iron and wine. mazzy star. the shins. jeff buckley, bat for lashes. fever ray , the knife, owen pallett. noise, drone, glitch, dubstep, funk, soul, 80's cheese, old school 90's hip hop, like black moon, smif n wesson, aaliyah, some gangsta rap believe it or not
food: anything but wheat. im pretty turned on to the paleo diet these days.
science and art, and where the two intersect
vintage Porsches & vintage campervans
poverty and class issues. street art. travel to: Iceland, Italy, Costa Rica, Austrailia, Spain, Scandinavia. Design. gardening. music. psychedelics. DMT. ayahuasca. shamanism. tantra. how to live with my heart open. BDSM (10+ years now exploring...) how to make a long term, committed relationship work...and be inspiring and supportive at the same time.
I do not want kids...but I do want a lasting partnership. I'm looking for someone who feels the same way. If that describes you...please let me know!
The rest of this stuff is gravy:
~you're silly, you're able to get ridiculous
~you dream of an urban homestead and love animals: chickens, bees, gardens
~you're extroverted / have a big personality
~you have done some work on yourself, you are emotionally available
~you value stability. this includes financial stability
~you love love
~you love nature: hiking, diving, snorkeling, camping, hot springs...
~you like to make stuff
~you wanna go out dancing
~you have a stellar music or film collection you want to introduce me to
Height I really don't care about. But I do care about length ;)
Nothing less then a solid 7 inches please. I know, I'm picky. But women are at a disadvantage. We have no way of telling!
I'm trying to avoid dating for a month only to find out I'm a size queen and you are packing 4 inches.
Does this comment mean I'm looking for casual sex?
I assure you...it doesn't. Casual sex doesn't interest me.
Am I really the first girl to mention this in her profile? well...I hope I at least made you laugh
p.s online dating is completely fraught with weirdo's and scammers, men who don't read profiles, countless time wasters and other bad news bears. If she seems a little uptight, perhaps that is why. You men seriously have no idea. This place is full of landmines, be extra kind! Xo