58 Montclair, United States
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My self-summary
Not an "A-list" member, so pop a text message over to me if you are interested in a conversation....

"Live life as if everything is rigged in your favor."~ Rumi

I was always very lucky; still am. I was raised by my two great parents to be a self-sufficient and self-motivated woman. Stable, thoughtful and dependable. Fairly intelligent, sometimes saucy, very fun, happy, curious. Intuitive, liberal, artsy. Atypical. And oh....this might be a good place to add.... I'm really good at kissing... with the right lab partner.

While I appreciate having a partner and companion, I've grown a lot and can stand, independently, on my own. I don't need a man, but I'm very comfortable and truly miss sharing life with a companion. But first things first; let's meet and see what happens! While my objective is to find that one person, you have to start somewhere... friends and perhaps more than that first--we'll see where and how it goes.

Ultimately, I'm looking for a companion to share...

a quiet beach (anytime/any weather) aromatic kitchen, a couple glasses of wine and hips swaying to music... a hilltop blanket, watching the stars... a sultry summer evening, meandering around a country road with the top down.... backpacking in the countryside, exploring new vistas and customs... a glistening, candle-lit tabletop, sharing a meal together, or with friends.... exchanged look across crowded room, with smiles that know their own language.

So, let's get on with it! Send me an email, or a smoke signal and maybe we can ditch this place!


A few words so we're not wasting anyone's time...

Don't bother contacting me if:
--you don't have a picture or profile
--God or religion is a primary focus in your life
--you are married or not legally separated
--have grossly misrepresented your age, weight or height.
--if you voted for Trump or consider yourself conservative or more right-leaning (it will just never work)
What I’m doing with my life
Working in Technology Sales in Manhattan. Creative pursuits. Volunteering. Friends, family. Swimming. I get great pleasure in making a difference.
I’m really good at
What am I really good at? I dunno, but I enjoy learning new things ... science, technology, sociology, psychology, spirituality and global, national and local politics, art, culture, design.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm...That I drink tap water? Maybe it's all that magnetic charisma I exude. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
l'm musically promiscuous--the Shins, Radiohead, Mary J, Dr. Dog, Yo La Tengo, Tune Yards, KT Tunstall Beau Soliel, Trombone Shorty, and old school... Cinnamon Girl, Layla, Blind Faith, Cream, Pink Floyd, Joni, Janis, Bonnie, Leon Russell, Beck, Dr. John, Bon Iver, LedZep, Genesis, Saturday mornings with Steely Dan, the JayB's, SRV, Clapton, BBK... I love Blues and R&B

Memento, The Rope, American Beauty, Rear Window, To Kill a Mockingbird, A Christmas Story

ALL kinds of art and design. Architecture is a constant joy and inspiration. I love to experiment with cooking and entertaining. I love reading .
The six things I could never do without
I don't really need six "things" at all, but I do cherish friends and family...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is it too cold/wet/hot/humid/windy to open a window?

that while I haven't yet met my fella, I know he's out there looking for me too... I'm living a pretty good life, but I am okay with the search to find him (you?).
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies. It always varies.
You should message me if
Chemistry and attraction are a must (therefore, pictures are a must). If your a nice, SINGLE progressive/liberal/middle-of-the-road fella' who wants a similarly-humored partner, send me an email, or a smoke signal... whatever works...

...and okay, you can also be cute.