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My self-summary
"Live life as if everything is rigged in your favor."~ Rumi
"The love you take is equal to the love you make." ~The Beatles
"Dancing is the vertical expression of a horizontal desire" - Robert Frost
“Love is the greatest refreshment in life.” ~Pablo Picasso

and perhaps my favorite:

"No one can go back and make a brand new start, however anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending." ~Unknown

A bit about me...
I'm an intelligent, self-sufficient and self-motivated woman. Sophisticated, stable, saucy, fun, happy, curious, romantic, progressive, artsy, atypical. I've got a good sense of humor, put people at ease and I'm pretty comfortable all kinds of folks.

I enjoy learning new things and have a natural interest and curiosity that extends in many directions, but I am especially good at working with my hands--building and fixing things, cooking, gardening and home projects are all things I enjoy immensely. I prefer the deeper end of the pool...learning about another person's interests and passions, discussing current events and what brings another person joy. And oh....this might be a good place to add.... I'm really good at kissing... with the right lab partner.

And I'm looking an authentic guy...
An up-beat, health-minded, middle-aged fella, who considers himself politically progressive, or middle-of-the-road. He's man of character, naturally curious and has a great sense of humor, adventure and spontaneity. He rolls with life and knows the importance of going with the flow. He's figured out that one of the great joys in life is discovering the girl inside the woman. A guy that slides easily between the corporate and the relaxed, who wants to share his life with a best friend, lover and partner, well that's a pretty great fit for me.

If you want to get to know me, you must be my friend first and foremost. I need to build trust with you. And if it turns out that we are compatible with a healthy respect for togetherness and "individual-ness," I certainly need chemistry and attraction. but if we found that we were interested in "going the distance," there must be parity, respect and reciprocity between us. I

I'm an old school romantic in a hookup culture and that's a special kind of hell. A great relationship can be transforming-- a blending of Mind, Body & Spirit that combines equal measures of courage, love, laughter, intimacy, kindness, vulnerability and trust. So, if this sounds like you.... send me an email, a wink, throw up a flare, or a smoke signal... whatever works...

Possibilities 'r us. ; ) 7
What I’m doing with my life
Working in Technology Sales in Manhattan. Creative pursuits. Volunteering. Friends, family. Swimming. I get great pleasure in making a difference.
I’m really good at
What am I really good at? I dunno, but I enjoy learning new things ... science, technology, sociology, psychology, spirituality and global, national and local politics, art, culture, design.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm...That I drink tap water? Maybe it's all that magnetic charisma I exude. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pretty much read everything. Music (l'm musically promiscuous)-- the Shins, Radiohead, Mary J, Dr. Dog, Yo La Tengo, Beau Soliel, Trombone Shorty, and old school... Cinnamon Girl, Layla, Blind Faith, Cream, Pink Floyd, Joni, Janis, Bonnie, Leon Russell, Beck, Dr. John, LedZep, Genesis, Saturday mornings with Steely Dan, the JayB's, SRV, Clapton, BBK... I love Blues and R&B! ...ALL kinds of art and design. Architecture is a constant joy and inspiration. I love to experiment with cooking and entertaining. Reading . And I'll leave this here:
The six things I could never do without
I can't possibly stop at six, but I always start with friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is it too cold/hot/humid/windy to open a window?
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies. It always varies.
You should message me if
If your a nice, SINGLE progressive/liberal/middle-of-the-road fella' who really has a great sense of himself. You have a lot of joy and curiosity in your life and desire a really good woman in your life who is independent, but yet you desire one who wants to share in the adventure together...

...and okay, you can also be cute.