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My self-summary
"Live life as if everything is rigged in your favor."~ Rumi

"it is in the shelter of each other that the people live." ~ Pádraig Ó Tuama

I was always very lucky; still am. I was raised by my two great parents to be a self-sufficient and self-motivated woman. Stable, thoughtful and dependable. Fairly intelligent, sometimes saucy, very fun, happy, curious. Intuitive, liberal, artsy. Atypical. And oh....this might be a good place to add.... I'm really good at kissing... with the right lab partner.

While I appreciate having a partner and companion, I've grown a lot and can stand, independently, on my own. Still, I really enjoy the smile on my fella's face when surprise him with a nice evening. While I can take care of myself, I also appreciate a guy who takes the initiative to make plans and suprise me!

But first things first and see how it goes. Some things I enjoy...

a quiet beach (anytime/any weather) aromatic kitchen, a couple glasses of wine and hips swaying to music... a hilltop blanket, watching the stars... a sultry summer evening, meandering around a country road with the top down.... backpacking in the countryside, exploring new vistas and customs... a glistening, candle-lit tabletop, sharing a meal together, or with friends.... exchanged look across crowded room, with smiles that know their own language.

So, let's get on with it! Send me an email, or a smoke signal and maybe we can ditch this place!

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A few words so we're not wasting anyone's time...

Don't bother contacting me if:
--you don't have a picture or profile
--God or religion is a primary focus in your life
--you are married or not legally separated
--have grossly misrepresented your age, weight or height.
--if you voted for Trump or consider yourself conservative or more right-leaning (it will just never work)
What I’m doing with my life
Working in Technology Sales in Manhattan. Creative pursuits. Volunteering. Friends, family. Swimming. I get great pleasure in making a difference.
I’m really good at
What am I really good at? I dunno, but I enjoy learning new things ... science, technology, sociology, psychology, spirituality and global, national and local politics, art, culture, design.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm...That I drink tap water? Maybe it's all that magnetic charisma I exude. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
l'm musically promiscuous--the Shins, Radiohead, Mary J, Dr. Dog, Yo La Tengo, Tune Yards, KT Tunstall, Beau Soliel, Trombone Shorty, and old school... Cinnamon Girl, Layla<3, Blind Faith, Cream, Pink Floyd, Joni, Janis, Bonnie, Leon Russell, Beck, Dr. John, Bon Iver, LedZep, Genesis, Saturday mornings with Steely Dan, the JayB's, SRV, Clapton, BBK... I love Blues and R&B

Memento, The Rope, American Beauty, Rear Window, To Kill a Mockingbird, A Christmas Story

ALL kinds of art and design. Architecture is a constant joy and inspiration. I love to experiment with cooking and entertaining. I love reading .
Six things I could never do without
I don't really need six "things" at all, but I do cherish friends and family...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is it too cold/wet/hot/humid/windy to open a window?

that while I haven't yet met my fella, I know he's out there looking for me too... I'm living a pretty good life, but I am okay with the search to find him (you?).
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies. It always varies.
You should message me if
Chemistry and attraction are a must (therefore, pictures are a must). If your a nice, SINGLE progressive/liberal/middle-of-the-road fella' who wants a similarly-humored partner, send me an email, or a smoke signal... whatever works...

...and okay, you can also be cute.
The two of us