58 Montclair, United States
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My self-summary
"Live life as if everything is rigged in your favor."~ Rumi

I was always very lucky; still am. I was raised by my two great parents to be a self-sufficient and self-motivated woman. Stable, thoughtful and dependable. Fairly intelligent, sometimes saucy, very fun, happy, curious. Intuitive, liberal, artsy. Atypical. And oh....this might be a good place to add.... I'm really good at kissing... with the right lab partner.

While I appreciate having a partner and companion, I've grown a lot and can stand, independently, on my own. I don't need a man, but I'm very comfortable and truly miss sharing life with a partner. I ,may not appeal to a lot of people, but it really doesn't matter... when it's right, we will appeal to each other. The key to a great life is about cultivating love and joy--finding them is essential to happiness. So, if you're not making it a priority to do what you love, or if your not loving who you're with, then you're really missing out on the best things in life.

I'd like to meet an up-beat, intelligent and health-minded, mature guy. You can't quite define him or box him into categories and that's what is so intriguing about him. He slides easily and confidently into different "shoes."

And what I'm looking for? A companion to share...

a quiet beach (anytime/any weather) aromatic kitchen, a couple glasses of wine and hips swaying to music... a hilltop blanket, watching the stars... a sultry summer evening, meandering around a country road with the top down.... backpacking in the countryside, exploring new vistas and customs... a glistening, candle-lit tabletop, sharing a meal alone, or with friends.... exchanged look across crowded room, with smiles that know their own language.

Looking for my haystack needle; That person that I can't wait to share the end of my day with; a best friend.... if this sounds like you.... Let's get on with it! Send me an email, or a smoke signal and let's ditch this place!


A few words so we're not wasting anyone's time...

Don't bother contacting me if:
--you don't have a picture or profile
--God or religion is a primary focus in your life
--you are married or not legally separated
--have grossly misrepresented your age, weight or height.
--you consider yourself to be conservative or more right-leaning (yeah, I've really tried the Carville/Matalin thing and for the life of me, I don't know how the heck they do it)
What I’m doing with my life
Working in Technology Sales in Manhattan. Creative pursuits. Volunteering. Friends, family. Swimming. I get great pleasure in making a difference.
I’m really good at
What am I really good at? I dunno, but I enjoy learning new things ... science, technology, sociology, psychology, spirituality and global, national and local politics, art, culture, design.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm...That I drink tap water? Maybe it's all that magnetic charisma I exude. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
l'm musically promiscuous--the Shins, Radiohead, Mary J, Dr. Dog, Yo La Tengo, Tune Yards, KT Tunstall Beau Soliel, Trombone Shorty, and old school... Cinnamon Girl, Layla, Blind Faith, Cream, Pink Floyd, Joni, Janis, Bonnie, Leon Russell, Beck, Dr. John, Bon Iver, LedZep, Genesis, Saturday mornings with Steely Dan, the JayB's, SRV, Clapton, BBK... I love Blues and R&B

Memento, The Rope, American Beauty, Rear Window, To Kill a Mockingbird, A Christmas Story

ALL kinds of art and design. Architecture is a constant joy and inspiration. I love to experiment with cooking and entertaining. I love reading .
The six things I could never do without
I can't possibly stop at six, but I always start with friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is it too cold/wet/hot/humid/windy to open a window?
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies. It always varies.
You should message me if
Chemistry and attraction are a must (therefore, pictures are a must). If your a nice, SINGLE progressive/liberal/middle-of-the-road fella' who wants a similarly-humored partner, send me an email, or a smoke signal... whatever works...

...and okay, you can also be cute.