Warning, if you already have kids. I might not be the best choice. Kids are wonderful, but I haven't had any because I don't want a broken home. And I want my own family not someone else's.
If you don't try you will never fail, if you try and fail at least you tried your best.
If you wait for me to ask you out, you might miss your chance. I have had really bad luck choosing girlfriends. My stance has changed. I am looking, just not actively.