54 Saskatoon, Canada
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My self-summary
I am well educated, and well traveled. You'll find that my profile will be constantly evolving. I like to craft what I write, no hurry and just the way I am.

One of my favorite thoughts: Having a soft heart in a cruel world is courage, not weakness.

One of my favorite times in a relationship is the very beginning. All those cool things we do in that state of anticipation. I like being on my toes and aware of every breath. I just like to appreciate the more subtle things in life.

One of the most important things I've learned. I am no where near skilled at seducing a woman. I am decent and intelligent but have come to the conclusion that I at least want to be perceived as adorably stupid. Yes I make mistakes now and then. I just don't want to take life so seriously all the time. I am hoping for the same in return. I will definitely be laughing at myself. I will not even pretend to think I understand why some relationships work. Sometimes 2 people just fit and I believe when that happens it's better to just relax and enjoy it. I think people are lonely because they can find more logical reasons why a relationship won't work rather than just giving it a try. I don't know any relationship that doesn't take some effort.

This is just a sliver of who I am. I need a woman to challenge me.

I am a texter. It's not that I dislike talking on the phone it's just I do it all day with my business. I'd rather talk face to face. Oh, if you want to know how I chose the age requirements on my preferences. That has to do with the Chinese horoscope. It seems I get along best with those born in the year of the Horse, Dog, and Pig.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to find some kind of balance in life. I'm kinky, you should be too. Still trying to figure out what kink maturity is.
I’m really good at
research. I'm always learning something new and loving it. Currently, I'm reading, "The Ethical Slut".
The first things people usually notice about me
That depends on the person and my mood. I like to listen to a conversation and take people in before I decide what I'll show them. I like a person who asks questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not sure about books but I read on the internet way too much.

Hey, I am a guy the movies I prefer are thought provoking and suspenseful. My suspense fave is The Grudge. Murder mystery like Mind Hunters. Animated favorite is Despicable Me. I also appreciate cinematography. There is a breathtaking scene in Medicine Man where they are rappelling through the trees.

Love Big Bang Theory. Light hearted, obscure humor is very entertaining. I also like Castle. I have been a Nathan Fillion fan since Firefly.

I definitely have an eclectic taste in music. I am a seeker of true vocal talent. Opera singer Sara Brightman comes to mind singing 'Deliver Me'. Then there is Beyonce singing 'If I were a Boy'. Lots more like Corrine Bailey Rae soulfully singing 'Like a Star'.

Food, I love Japanese food. Been a while since I've had Shrimp in Ginger sauce. Time for a road trip to Calgary for an order of Hibachi shrimp
More to come
The six things I could never do without
My cell phone, my computer, my work, music, reading on the internet, Intimacy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Surprisingly, social issues. Since I am not in any educational program right now I browse the internet for articles to comment on. I like to keep up on events in North America. My views are definitely not always popular but do put the people of our society first. I guess I garnered this stance after a deep personal investment in a University ethics course. Or it could have been the Rhetoric course. That one was so much fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
This is a tough one. I suppose it depends on my mood. I'm not really some kind of thrill seeker. I'm always reading and writing. Most of my time is wrapped up in self development. I do play a bit too much Mahjong online. Guess I'm a friday night nerd.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On the surface, I am perceived as a leader and quite competent at my profession. What is underneath, is adoration of assertive, strong women. If that is you I am going to melt.
You should message me if
You're not a shallow person or pretentious; are open minded and want to engage in a thought provoking relationship. You shouldn't be too extreme about anything (religion or politics) although sexuality is a hot topic of interest for me.