I enjoy cycling and traveling. I find bicycles sexy, and women who ride bicycles even sexier. I'm looking for a lover who is open and sex positive.
My life keeps me busy and I don't waste time playing emotional games. I enjoy real connections with honest, open, and non-judgmental people. I'm in a committed, ethically non-monogamous marriage, and although my wife knows I have an OKC account, she prefers that it essentially remain a "don't ask, don't tell" situation.
Being a dad.
Waiting at the top of the hill for my riding partner to catch up.
Food - I like real food - not processed food. I like food that makes me feel good and food that fuels my mind and body. Although I enjoy good food, I don't consider myself a foodie, and I'm usually too lazy to make myself a really good meal.
Books - I enjoy thought provoking books about sexuality and relationships (Sex at Dawn, Mating in Captivity, etc) and other non fiction books, such as Bicycle Diaries, Unbroken, and The Sixth Extinction. Currently working on Sapiens, a Brief History of Humankind... it's really not that brief. I'm a very slow reader, but I do enjoy reading books that capture me. I also read owner's manuals.
Movies/TV/shows - I'm not much into tv and could easily live without it. I like a movie from time to time, and some favorite classics include Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, American Beauty, and Groundhog Day.
Yeah, technically, many of those aren't "things"... and I could live without contacts and my bike... but I don't want to.