32Victoria, Canada
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My self-summary
I'm the kinda guy you only occasionally see at parties but if you need help moving, or disposing of evidence, I'm your first call.

I have a booming voice but spend almost every day in near total silence. I’ve got a pitch-black sense of humour, but I’m not above making a terrible pun. I’m a bundle of stereotype defying contradictions.
What I’m doing with my life
My highest aspiration is to read, write and teach for a living.

I work in IT, but I value working on things that matter more than money - ideally, you do too.
I’m really good at
I'm a very engaged listener - I'm present and focused in a way others have a hard time being.

I am good at putting voice to the thoughts of others in a way they find pleasing or useful.

I also have a wide array of surprisingly well-honed talents.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am constitutionally incapable of small talk, which usually means I get to know people very quickly and deeply.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love stories, though I read a lot of non-fiction.

Television is something I'm coming back to after a nearly decade-long hiatus - thanks to Netflix.

I love to learn new recipes and how to use familiar ingredients in different ways.
Six things I could never do without
writing, conversation, play, coffee, stories, curiosity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How on earth I'm going to get caught up with my rapidly growing list of projects...
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing Dungeons & Dragons with my friends - you're welcome to join us.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
For whatever reason, I have a visceral response to embarrassment scenes in movies and TVs to the point where I feel compelled to change the channel or look away. Even merely awkward moments make me cringe. It doesn't happen every time, but often enough for me to think it abnormal.

I have lots of theories why this might be the case, but I'm not really certain.
You should message me if
You're looking for someone to have fun with in a variety of ways. I like nights in, watching movies, but I also love to dance, drink and carouse or go out on wilderness adventures, or just walk my dog.

Being a card-carrying nerd, I like board games, video games etc. However, I love the outdoors (who doesn't?), especially walking with my dog.

So ideally, I'm looking for someone with a strong sense of self. Someone with rigorously pursued passions that I can in turns excite, cheerlead, and make-out with.
The two of us